Yes, it is sad that most parishes, and even religious orders are stuck in the late 60’s and 70’s as far as liturgy is concerned. Yet, these are the very people who rant and rave about traditionalist who are stuck in the 50’s. They don’t want to change. Its a shame. There are some traditional religious orders: The Legionares of Christ, the Mercedarians, and a few others. There is a Benedictine community in Cold Creek, OK which I understand is very traditional. I think the Cistercians in Spring Bank, WI too.
The reason why the church has a feminist agenda is that most Extra Ordinary ministers of the Eucharist, and memebers of the Liturgy Committee are women, they drive the men (most of whom are traditional) away.