I tried praying the Liturgy of the Hours and following all the correct times to pray. I lasted two weeks before I couldn’t wake up on time. Of course, I’m 70+ years old so that may have something to do with it. But I just could not get up before dawn for Matins every day of the week.
So I tried the Little Office of the BVM. It is considerably easier and its something I can physically do.
But I really loved the LOTH when I did pray it.
Cheers
It took me YEARS to build up to some sort of habitual recitation of the hours (I actually chant them). The real breakthrough was a job where I could work from home.
Now I’ve graduated to using the Monastic Office, which is not for the faint of heart.
Many monks in monasteries are over 80 and get up in the middle of the night for Matins, but they probably have been doing so for 60 or so years. Lots of time to make it a habit!
I’ll admit that Matins is my toughest proposition. When I can, I get up at 3:30 or 4 in the morning to pray it, which takes about 45 minutes (if I divide Matins into two weeks, i.e. 6 psalms per night; using the 1 week schema, there are 12 psalms and it can take from about 55 min to just over an hour depending on the length of the psalms, and well over an hour on Sundays and feasts when there’s a 3d nocturne of 3 O.T. canticles), then I go back to sleep until Lauds. When I can’t bring myself to get up in the middle of the night, I pray it at around 6:15 am, my normal time to rise. When I work in the city (once a week) or otherwise have to get up very early in the morning, I combine it with Compline and pray it the night before.
That would be my suggestion to you, pray it with Compline. I use the monastic office but I spread Matins over 2 weeks. When I pray it with Compline, I do it as such:
Introductory verse
Examination of conscience and Confiteor
Hymn (Te Lucis, from Compline, in the rubrics you can use the Matins hymn or the hymn of the hour with which you are combining it)
1st Nocturne (psalmody from Vigils)
Vigil Readings with their responsories
2nd Nocturne (psalms from Compline)
Shorter reading for Compline
Responsory
Gospel canticle
Kyrie+Pater in secret (this is a monastic tradition, not in the LOTH)
Collect
Conclusion
Marian antiphon
One thing I learned hanging out in monasteries, is that there is a LOT of variation from community to community on how to do things; for instance in summer, the Rule of St. Benedict allows the replacement of the longer readings with brief scripture readings with responsory. Presumably because in the summer there was more work to be done in the fields.
Oh and the way I got into praying Matins at 4 am as is done in many monasteries, is somewhat amusing. My cats were always waking me up at 4 am to let them outside. I used to really grumble about that until I realized that God was calling me through my cats!
