Living in sin: Mariage. Help

[barboza21]

Barboza,

I’m not sure what the deacon told you, but the teaching of the Catholic Church is that it’s a sin to have premarital sex. If the deacon told you otherwise, he is incorrect. I think it would be best for you both to abstain before marriage, and also make sure you confess premarital sex when you go to Confession. (don’t be afraid the priests have heard everything). God bless

That’s true.
I am asking God for the strength to be able to talk to my future husband about abstaining until the daywe get married. I am also asking Him to give my fiance the understand and patience that he will need to agree. I know God can do it all. I hope he listens to my prayer. Also, I hope it won’t take too long to get married–not for the sex!–but because I can’t wait to truly be his wife. ")

Thank you for you advice.
If you can, please pray for me.
Not that this should make you want to pray for me–but I will pray for you too. ")