Greetings @yawnernonner
Welcome to the Catholic Answers Forums. I hope that we will be able to answer your questions concerning these lists.
First, I’d like to point out that some of these claims/assertions are extremely vague. They make a statement but lack the specifics of the background to the statement. A couple of examples:
First the item on “Extreme Unction”:
This sacrament states that “At the end of life, sin can be totally undone and man is prepared for immediate entrance into everlasting glory.” There is no reference as to where the statement comes from; there is no reference to a specific Catholic document. It is difficult to respond to this without that reference, and it makes me question the veracity of the original statement. If one is going to make a statement like this, one should have the source of the statement and be willing to use that source. It makes the argument stronger. Anytime I talk with someone about the Catholic Church and they come up with a statement like this, I always ask them, “What Catholic document did you get that from?” They usually cannot respond. You want to take the same stance. Let them defend their statement.
Second example:
- The Roman Catholic church has a history of burning Bibles.
This is very vague. Any good argument will answer all five questions of who, what, when, where, why. This statement only answers the “what” statement. It does not answer who burned the bible, when were they burned, where were they burned and why were they burned. Again, this brings into question whether the original statement is correct or not, i.e. did the Catholic Church burn bibles.
I would suggest, in addition to the suggested resources that others on this thread have made, is that you go to the Catholic Answers main page and type in what you are looking for. They have a ton of stuff there that will go a long way to answering your questions.
I wish you well with your father and your efforts on converting. Without knowing more about your family situation, I would not be able to tell you whether to move out or not. I would recommend that you make an appointment with a priest in your area and tell him your situation. He will be able to help you on your journey.
I will keep you in my prayers.
Blessings