Looking at womens' breasts

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Robert_Sock said:
I usually stare when someone is dressing sexy, so I don’t think they mind my admiring their breasts.
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Contrary to popular belief women don’t dress nice/sexy/pretty just to get noticed. I know this is a shock to most men who seem to think every scrap of clothing we put on and every bit of makeup is so that some guy somewhere will think we are pretty. (When we do dress to look pretty for a guy, we usually have a guy in mind.)

As a woman who often notices men staring at her chest. (It is not my fault, it is the way I am built) I promise you most women find it very offensive, disrespectful, and frankly creepy.

I know men always say they can’t help it but that’s just not true. It is amazing how fast a man learns not to stare at me when I am out with my 6 foot 4 built like a tank husband.

You say you don’t mean any lustful thoughts but you made a point to say YOUNG breasts…which as a YOUNG woman sounds even creepier.
 
Robert_Sock said:
Breasts can be symbolic of spiritual nourishment. Again, breasts are sometimes used in the bible to denote something sacred.
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Stare too long at a woman’s breasts, and you will soon be the recipient of a sacred tongue lashing or sacred knee to privates!😉

Don’t stare. It’s rude.
 
StarFireKK said:
Contrary to popular belief women don’t dress nice/sexy/pretty just to get noticed. I know this is a shock to most men who seem to think every scrap of clothing we put on and every bit of makeup is so that some guy somewhere will think we are pretty. (When we do dress to look pretty for a guy, we usually have a guy in mind.)

As a woman who often notices men staring at her chest. (It is not my fault, it is the way I am built) I promise you most women find it very offensive, disrespectful, and frankly creepy.

I know men always say they can’t help it but that’s just not true. It is amazing how fast a man learns not to stare at me when I am out with my 6 foot 4 built like a tank husband.

You say you don’t mean any lustful thoughts but you made a point to say YOUNG breasts…which as a YOUNG woman sounds even creepier.
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I am a man- and I agree totally. Try and stare at my wifes chest and Ill get irritated too.

it’s the behavior of those who the put on special registry…
 
StarFireKK said:
Contrary to popular belief women don’t dress nice/sexy/pretty just to get noticed. I know this is a shock to most men who seem to think every scrap of clothing we put on and every bit of makeup is so that some guy somewhere will think we are pretty. (When we do dress to look pretty for a guy, we usually have a guy in mind.)

As a woman who often notices men staring at her chest. (It is not my fault, it is the way I am built) I promise you most women find it very offensive, disrespectful, and frankly creepy.

I know men always say they can’t help it but that’s just not true. It is amazing how fast a man learns not to stare at me when I am out with my 6 foot 4 built like a tank husband.

You say you don’t mean any lustful thoughts but you made a point to say YOUNG breasts…which as a YOUNG woman sounds even creepier.
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I think I like your husband.
 
Owlpride said:
I am a man- and I agree totally. Try and stare at my wifes chest and Ill get irritated too.

it’s the behavior of those who the put on special registry…
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And yet people don’t understand maybe that’s how God feels… 🤷
 
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Robert_Sock said:
You have a very stringent definition of being a “pervert” that would probably characterize 90% of all men!
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if that makes you feel better, than good for you. Be careful though-some real men, oh, about 90 percent of us, might not be happy with with your actions.
 
Owlpride said:
TY

if that makes you feel better, than good for you. Be careful though-some real men, oh, about 90 percent of us, might not be happy with with your actions.
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This man would not be happy with your actions if you ogled his wife/girlfriend/sister/daughter/mother…
 
Owlpride said:
TY

if that makes you feel better, than good for you. Be careful though-some real men, oh, about 90 percent of us, might not be happy with with your actions.
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This man would not be happy with your actions if you ogled his wife/girlfriend/sister/daughter/mother…
 
Good one Catholic90!

Anyone else a bit disturbed by the fact Mr. Sock has not ever really responded to the WOMEN who have posted on this thread?

Mr. Sock does it change your mind at all about your behavior considering every single woman who has posted has told you it is offensive?
 
Robert_Sock said:
Do you look at muscular guys? It’s basically the same as my looking at breasts.
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No, and no, it’s not.

If I stared at a guy’s package, that would be analogous to you staring at women’s breasts. And you specifically said “YOUNG WOMEN”. That is creepy.:eek:

I do not stare at muscular guys. I am done. Was married, now widowed, so been there, done that. :cool:

I much prefer to look at things like this:

http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-tRWJ5yuZi...vTmPs5jNE4/s640/Adorable-Cats-Screensaver.jpg
 
WesleyF said:
Lol!? 😃 I honestly laughed at this, but why did you mention this? And what are breasts a sacred image of?
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If the OP was trying to refer to this:
“I said, ‘I will climb the palm tree,
I will take hold of its fruit stalks.’
Oh, may your breasts be like clusters of the vine,
And the fragrance of your breath like apples
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Than the OP should know that

a) it is the admiration by the Bridegroom - so this is an admiration of a bride not a strange woman

and

b) Since it is to be admired by the King it can also be taken as a foreshadowing of a beautiful description of the Church as the Bride of Christ

c) Only a poor exegesis gets permission to oggle strange women out of this
 
I believe that staring can be sinful, but simply noticing is not. There seem to be an undue number of pitfalls nowadays, however. My wife and I were at a store recently where every single female employee in the store was wearing extremely tight fitting, very low-cut, V-neck T-shirts and push-up bras. Although none of them were wearing shirts bearing the store logo, their attire was way too similar for it to have been some odd coincidence that they all dressed like floozies that day (the fact that it was a grand opening led me to believe that it was a ploy to hook male customers). It was far less modest than the Hooters outfit (no exaggeration), and an unnecessary distraction on an otherwise pleasant shopping trip. Any time I needed to talk to an employee I spent almost the entire conversation staring at the ceiling–any lower would have been unintentionally disrespectful to both the employee and my wife. When we got in the car, I told my wife that if we kept shopping there, I’d either break my neck from trying to avoid looking at the exposed breasts, or I’d have to go to confession more often (the point being not that I can’t avoid staring, but they were all so flagrantly “out there” that you couldn’t help but get an eyeful no matter where your eyes were focused).
 
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