Hi.
After much disernment, I feel that Our Lord is calling me to be a Jesuit priest. I knw that in many places the Jesuits have lusy reputations as far as orthodoxy is concerned. Does anyone know where I can find a good Jesuit semenary that is faithful to the teachings of the Church?
To get back to the OP’s question…
First of all, when you say “much discernment” I would ask “how much”? I don’t know if there is ever enough discernment, and sometimes there can be too much. And second, how do you know you are called to be a Jesuit? That’s pretty specific information.
I was once a seminarian. I went to a Catholic University that somewhat rhymes with Crayola. It was a Jesuit University (still is) and some edifying things happened there, and some less than edifying things happened there. It doesn’t matter where you go to college for seminary; someone will rock your faith to the core and you will have to survive it, whether it’s faithful to the teachings of the church or not.
As I do not know how old you are (which is a crucial bit of information for those discerning a vocation) I’m going to assume you are 18ish. If I had it to do over again, I would have gone to college as a student rather than a seminarian, but kept in touch with some kind of spiritual counsellor or faith group. You are still discerning. You are still a man. You may want to date (not wild sex, mind you, but date). Eyebrows are raised when seminarians date, and even though everyone knows that a seminarian isn’t a priest yet, the expectation is still there. I knew many seminarians who dated clandestinely, and it was like watching a James Bond movie. Very distracting. It was especially distracting when the seminarians were dating each other.

Oh yes, my brothers and sisters.
The title “seminarian” can be attractive to the young man who is in love with God, but when that young man is still discerning it can be burdensome especially if you still love women. Trust me, you need to work that out.
There are three levels of formation: human, christian and priestly. You need to be fully entrenched within the first two before you can rise to the third. Seminaries, in general, are poor at dealing with the first two, which can be brain damaging to the young man who is looking to them for guidance. Don’t misunderstand me. Be a man first, a Christian man second, and only go to the seminary when you know who you are.
I don’t know you, Son of Rome, but your screen name makes me think that what you are looking for will not be found in a seminary. Be a man, be a man of God, and if you have a vocation to the priesthood, Christ will open the door for you; you won’t have to beat down any doors.
Hope that helps.
So, Son of Rome, if you reply to this, my post on your thread, these are the things I want to know to better help:
- How much is “much discernment”?
- Why the Jesuits specifically, as opposed to the Franciscans or a “Front-line” diocesan priest? (the “front-line” bit is Jesuit talk, so you know)
- When was the last time you kissed a girl (Platonically or otherwise) or held her hand?
- Have you ever lived in an apartment and managed your own finances?
- What do your parents/siblings/friends think of your impending seminarianism? Do people say “Son of Rome, you just have to be a priest!” etc.