Looking for My Calling

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I introduced myself in the Meet and Greet thread, and now I am posting on the subject that is definitely on my mind and close to my heart at this time.

To cut to the chase… I am being confirmed in the Roman Catholic Church on April 12, 2008 after being away from it for 10 years. I recently approached the vocational director for the diocese of Orange about the potential for candidacy to priesthood, and his reply in my interview was that I was ineligible for advancement to priesthood primarily because of a history of Bipolar disorder (supposed contrary to being entrusted with public ministry), and secondarily because I do not have enough history with which to establish fidelity to the Church. (I understand and respect this response.)

The reason for considering priesthood is that I considered it the logical conclusion of a train of thought that began with a desire to serve in the military, went through the available jobs to a man in the service, and ended in the idea of being a Navy chaplain–and since I am Roman Catholic, would that not mean priesthood?

The only other faith community whose meetings I have attended on any kind of basis, other than the Roman Catholic Church, is the Unitarian Universalist congregation of Fullerton.

I am reviewing the possibility of being a lay Roman Catholic and also a Unitarian Universalist minister, however that combination might work.

I am praying for wisdom in making my next steps, which still include Confirmation as a Roman Catholic in April 2008 and a Bachelor of Arts in Religious Studies in spring 2009.

Thank you for any counsel, and of course for your prayers.
 
I introduced myself in the Meet and Greet thread, and now I am posting on the subject that is definitely on my mind and close to my heart at this time.

To cut to the chase… I am being confirmed in the Roman Catholic Church on April 12, 2008 after being away from it for 10 years. I recently approached the vocational director for the diocese of Orange about the potential for candidacy to priesthood, and his reply in my interview was that I was ineligible for advancement to priesthood primarily because of a history of Bipolar disorder (supposed contrary to being entrusted with public ministry), and secondarily because I do not have enough history with which to establish fidelity to the Church. (I understand and respect this response.)

The reason for considering priesthood is that I considered it the logical conclusion of a train of thought that began with a desire to serve in the military, went through the available jobs to a man in the service, and ended in the idea of being a Navy chaplain–and since I am Roman Catholic, would that not mean priesthood?

The only other faith community whose meetings I have attended on any kind of basis, other than the Roman Catholic Church, is the Unitarian Universalist congregation of Fullerton.

I am reviewing the possibility of being a lay Roman Catholic and also a Unitarian Universalist minister, however that combination might work.

I am praying for wisdom in making my next steps, which still include Confirmation as a Roman Catholic in April 2008 and a Bachelor of Arts in Religious Studies in spring 2009.

Thank you for any counsel, and of course for your prayers.
Welcome back home to Rome!

Firstly, wait until you’ve been confirmed. Let the Holy Ghost be your guide in what you’re feeling called to.

Secondly, get a spiritual director!!!

Thirdly, concentrate on abiding with Jesus. He and the Paraclete, with and through your spiritual director, will assist you with where you’re being called.

I’ve never heard of a Catholic/Unitarian combination, but it sounds a little strange to me. You’ve just come back to the church. In my mind, the Unitarian affiliation makes me ponder the amount of fidelity to Holy Mother Church.

HTH.

Blessings,
Cloisters
 
Thank you for all your comments.

Who or what exactly?
Usually a priest who will help you in your journey to abide with Jesus.

The SD will also make note of your deficits, and help you work through those.

Doesn’t have to be a priest, though. Can be a deacon, religious sister or brother. Again, pray for guidance.

HTH.

Blessings,
Cloisters
 
Usually a priest who will help you in your journey to abide with Jesus.

The SD will also make note of your deficits, and help you work through those.

Doesn’t have to be a priest, though. Can be a deacon, religious sister or brother. Again, pray for guidance.

HTH.
Thank you; this helps. The Pastor at my parish is an extremely busy man, and I have no special connection to him. There is another priest with whom I have met at St. Michael’s Abbey, and I think I should schedule another appointment with him.

I will pray for guidance as well.
 
Peter,

Congratulations on finding your way home.

I think it best to wait on any ideas of vocation to the priesthood. I believe you have to be a Catholic for 5 years before you can even begin.

If your bi-polar issues are under control, some diocese or order may consider you then.

I second the suggestion for spiritual direction. Make sure the priest is orthodox and loyal to Rome.

I don’t believe you can be associated with any other faith and be a practicing Catholic.

Maybe you could be a lay Catholic minister? Or teach RCIA or CCD. There are many ways to serve.

God Bless
 
The basic update…

The idea of UU/RCC combination has been pretty successfully shot down. The UU is one of the few churches that successfully keep Christ largely out of the business, and so would not be the most comfortable home for me.

On the other hand, the opportunities as one faithful to the see of Rome seem dim. Furthermore, I am not particularly keen on teaching the whole gamut of RCC doctrine, and that presents a problem inherently.

At this time I am looking for a church that has both of the virtues that I was looking for separately in RCC and UU:
  1. Has a recognition of the saving work of God in Christ.
  2. Has a commitment to freedom of thought and expression.
The guy who runs the Catholic Worker ministry in Santa Ana, a discerning man, suggested the United Church of Christ. I am considering that now. He also rather truthfully stated that any type of “dual churchiness” for a minister is out of the question unless you want your craziness really to shine through. As a minister, if that is my calling, it will be best to settle into one faith community for the most part.

I thank everyone for all their comments, past and future.
 
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