We can’t know either way, but since Onesimus was being sent on behalf of St. Paul, as his son, his heart, one can assume Onesimus trusted St. Paul, so to think his fear being diminished is plausible!
I would agree that it is plausible, just as the idea that Onesimus was still fearful is also plausible.
You would have to assume their goals were opposing after Philemon received the letter, which we don’t know! You are talking about a persecuted people, that became a right nit community of believers, who would say strange and unusual things, like calling people of no relation brother and sister!
Repeatedly you’ve told me about all of these things we can’t assume, but then you state we must assume these very uncertain conclusions that you’ve come to. In this instance we can’t assume the goals of Philemon and Paul were different, but you’re saying we must assume that when a leader of a community asks something of a member that the member will comply. Not only can we not assume that all members of a community have the same opinion on all matters, but we have numerous examples of members disagreeing and not complying with their leaders.
Wow, interesting that it exist indeed, but that doesn’t change the fact that St. Paul was the one sending Onesimus, and slavery in the US *could be * far more brutal.
What does the fact that the letter came from Paul have to do with whether Philemon kept the letter or not? Paul did not have mind control powers. People were capable of disagreeing with him. In fact, you said yourself originally that if Philemon disregarded Paul’s letter he would have discovered it. You allowed for the possibly that Philemon could have done so. As my example shows people who receive letters from people they are at odds with will sometimes keep those letters. It doesn’t matter if it’s from a slave, Paul, or the president of the United States. Don’t ignore this very clear proof.
Also, as I mentioned earlier in the thread to say slavery in the U.S. could be far more brutal ignores Exodus 21:20-21 where the beating and death of a slave (so long as the slave doesn’t die the same day) is perfectly acceptible with not shrug from God.
It’s not unreasonable to assume St Paul was reveared, by a guy who runs a Church out of his house in the first century, whom St. Paul refers to as a friend to begin with!
Was Paul revered? (
Hee!) Likely. Was Paul revered by Philemon? Maybe. Do people disagree with people who are revered? All the time. Also the guy at the hot dog place near me calls me friend. I’m not his friend.
Possible, that the letter was transcribed, but we can only infer, I just think the inference I made, was more plausible!
This is important. We’re not looking for the most plausible, but trying to rule out all but one possible cause. We agree that if Paul only made one copy of the letter, if Philemon received, and he destroyed it, then there would be no way that it would be recorded today. Here are what I think are the five best reasons why there is a record of this letter:
- Philemon complied with Paul’s request
- Philemon denied Paul’s request but kept the letter
- Paul wrote a copy of the letter for himself
- It was later recounted orally
- The letter isn’t real but an allegory
Now here’s what I think:
- Plausible
- Plausible
- Plausible
- Plausible
- Plausible
But you’re stating that the Book of Philemon is
proof that Philemon did not keep Onesumus as a slave. For it to be proof it would have to look more like this:
- Almost certain
- Incredibly unlikely
- Incredibly unlikely
- Incredibly unlikely
- Incredibly unlikely
So even if you say option 1 is more plausible than 2 or 3 or 4 or 5, that doesn’t constitute proof. Not even close. You need to show that options 2 through 5 just can’t happen, and you said yourself that my options are plausible (albeit you think option 1 is more plausible).
Perhaps, we all have to take a position, based on evidence!
I have!

Give me some evidence wherein Paul isn’t regarded as some all-convincing svengali that no one dares to disagree with (unlike highly popular leaders like Martin Luther King and Franklin Roosevelt, who met with some derision within their ranks).
St. Paul sends Onesimus back to a people who would rather die, than deny Christ in the first century, so I have reason to believe, that peoples hearts change, and do the right thing out of love!
If all of the people involved were real, then I hope you’re right that Philemon’s heart changed. But there’s a difference between optimism and proof.
Each case is different, we are dealing with people, not programmed robots, lead by electrical impulses, people have free will!
Absolutely! But you’re treating Philemon like a robot, saying that a man with freewill would be incapable of denying Paul and/or keeping a letter sent by Paul if he disagreed with him. Again, could he have complied with Paul? Yes, but he had freewill and may not have. He also may have not complied and kept the letter.
I do not assume that atheist moral code is suspect, just the grounds for it!
Your incredulity is noted. I hope you’ll research morals outside of a religious framework, because I have them and many of the non-believers you’ll encounter have them as well despite said incredulity.
On what grounds, was St. Paul’s decision to send back Onesimus to Philemon immoral?
As I noted in my previous post, sending Onesimus to a possibly/likely dangerous situation when it was not necessary is immoral. Onesimus was a pawn in Paul’s game. It may have worked out for the best, but if it didn’t then Philemon has to take some of the blame.