Hi,
I am a Catholic. I joined at Easter 2019. I was a Seventh-Day Adventist before that. I understand where you are coming from, and I also sympathize with your concerns.
Let me start by saying the Catholic Church is the true church of Christ. It is the New Israel, a sign of the New Covenant. The Eucharist is our New Sabbath.
This forum was quite good for me in my formation as a candidate, but please keep in mind this is an American site, attracting a distinctly American discourse.
That discourse is often antithetical to proper discernment in regards to practical, everyday application of Catholic teaching.
Pope Francis is the head of Christ’s Church. That also means he has things to say to all people within and without that visible community. Speaking just for myself, I think his pastoral approach is appropriate and measured but that it also has increased tension and damaged relationships of people who he does not focus his attention on. But that is his prerogative, not ours as his sheep.
The truth will come out regarding his statements, whether today, tomorrow, or a hundred years from now. But nothing can ever change the Truth of the Church, and so please keep St. Padre Pio in mind, “Pray, hope, and don’t worry.”