I have been living in NE San Antonio since May and have had a very up and down time trying to find an orthodox parish. A couple that I have been to seem to be quite ‘clap happy’ and sing every part of the liturgy, raise hands high in the air, and chat during Mass. I have been to the minor basilica - Little Flower National Shrine and have found the Mass to be much more reverent. It is far away for me but I attend once a month as I am an aspirant with the Secular Discalced Carmelite community there.
We attend St Monica’s in Converse which is OK. My husband feels uncomfortable at times there but we don’t have the time or the gas to go to the National Shrine every week. I will look into Our Lady of the Atonement though… it may be a possibility.
Sorry I am not very helpful! We are used to gregorian chant and a very reverent Mass at our old parish and it has been an adjustment here.