Lost my virginity

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Don’t beat yourself up about this. I have never met anyone who hasn’t made a mistake. Sins can be forgiven.

I wouldn’t want to be around someone who tried to convince me that I was brainwashed though. Love is great when you have the right person, but anyone who will not accept you is not in it for the love.

And be careful with drinking. If you can’t trust someone not to take advantage af you do not drink with them, and drunkeness is never as much fun the next day.

Kat
 
You’re wrong – virginity is given away unless a woman is raped.

Saying “I lost it” is a way of trying to evade responsibility for ones actions.
 
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Harriet:
I’ve been trying so hard to be a good christian and I’ve failed already … I’ve been feeling so terribly guilty this morning, I can’t possibly explain how upset I am… I don’t know what to do, I’m just an immoral person and I do it wilfully.
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Doesn’t sound like she is evading responsibility to me.:ehh: You are just being nitpicky and unkind.:tsktsk:

God bless you, pinklady.🙂
 
Harriet,
You have recieved a great deal of sound advice from the people on this forum, and I just want to throw out another word of encouragement and offer you consoloation, because Our Lord, Jesus Christ, will recieve and comfort you in this time of trial. Remember the parable of the prodigal son. Your guilt speaks for your repentance. You know how you have sinned. You have shown great courage in making your sin known to the brothers and sisters of the faith. Now I encourage you to take your sin to the Lord, and he will transform it, and reveal His love to you. I pray that Jesus will fill you with His divine mercy, and grant you consolation, for He is your true lover, friend, and king. In this season of Advent, may you find hope in Emmanuel, God with us.
God Bless,

Justin
 
This is an opportunity for you. You can look at this through the eyes of the evil one which sees condemnation or you can see this with the eyes of the Lord which sees the offer of forgiveness. Look at this as a call to draw closer to the one who came to save you.

If you give in to condemnation rather than the invitation to draw closer to the Lord then the evil one will have won. Let this be your wake up call. Really love the fellow you were with by doing what is best for him and don’t repeat the behavior. Call him on to more of who he should be by not building your relationship on sin. Both of you deserve more.

Finally go to confession. It is a fabulous gift. It was established for your benefit. God doesn’t need it but he knew we would and do.
You know if you become more committed to God because of your stumble then you have brought something positive out of a negative.

Ms. Cilantro
 
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