Lost person-in despair

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I have confessed my Sins to the Lord and Prayed daily over the past two years for my Marriage.Now my Wife is preparing to leave and it is putting me into a state of despair that is slowly killing me.I know that Love is a passing thing for most people and that when a relationship ends they get over it. But, for me this is not the case. I lost my Wife once before we were Married and I suffered for twelve years, thinking of her almost EVERY day.
I now face this loss again and I know that I will not get over it.I have never broken any of my Vows and our problem is one of communication. I do not know if my Wife has broken her Vows but I know that she takes no responsibility for he faults in this matter. She blames me for everything.
I know that I turned to the Lord when problems occurred and I know that I am a worthless Sinner. The Lord owes me nothing. But, I keep Praying that he will have Mercy. he will not force my Wife to do anything, I know that. I just keep hoping that he will reach out and make her see that she has a Husband who is sincere and dedicated to her. All I beg the Lord for is one last fair chance from my Wife. I just want her to work with me. If I were to get this chance I know that there would be no other chances.If only the Lord could touch her and let her see that she has made mistakes also and needs to honor her Vows and commitments that she made.
Where do you turn when the Lord does not answer your cries for Mercy? There are always two sides to a story but God knows all . So he knows that my despair is consuming me to the point that I will self destuct, in one way or another if he and my Wife do not come to my aid.No matter what happens I will act as a Christian and I will always be here if my Wife needs me. For various reasons I and some of her Family know that she is making a bad choice but no one has been able to get through to her. Even though I am hurt and angry over this I Pray for my Wife’s well being and health. I want only good for her and I Pray that she will return to Our Lord.
In closing I humbly ask for Prayers and offer my Prayers for those who need the Lord’s help and Mercy.
 
This is a good prayer that I would recommend to anyone having marital difficulties. God bless.

Hedge Prayer for a Wayward Spouse:

Trusting in the promise that whatever we ask the Father in Jesus’ name He will do, I now approach You, Father with confidence in Our Lord’s words and in Your infinite power and love for me and for my [husband/wife, person’s name] and with the intercession of the Blessed Virgin Mary, Mother of God, the Blessed Apostles Peter and Paul, Blessed Archangel Michael, the guardian angels of myself and [person’s name] , with all the saints and angels of heaven, and Holy in the power of His blessed Name, as ask you Father to send forth Your Spirit to convict [person’s name] and to allow him/her to see any and all wrongs that he has done and how they offend Your infinite goodness.

Father I ask in sorrow, knowing that You do not intrude upon free will, but that You can give Divine Influence like you did with Hosea’s wife, that You send a hedge of thorns and wall around [person’s name] so that he/she cannot find the paths that lead him/her away from me and our marriage, and though he/she shall pursue his/her * , he/she will not * ; though he/she shall seek * , he/she shall not find * ; that no matter what path or what * he/she seeks he/she shall not find satisfaction or happiness until he/she returns to me, his/her wife/husband where he/she may then be taught by Your Holy Spirit the true meaning of marriage and sexuality and to be a good and loving wife/husband, and to know the ways of righteousness and true womanhood/manhood.

Father, I am powerless against these spiritual forces and recognize my utter dependence on You and Your power. Look with mercy upon me and upon my wife/husband. Do not look upon our sins, O Lord; rather, look at the sufferings of your Beloved Son and see the Victim who’s bitter passion and death has reconciled us to You. By the victory of the cross, protect us from all evil and rebuke any evil spirits who are attacking or influencing us in any way. Send them back to Hell and place a wall of protection around this marriage. Send your Holy Angels to watch over us and protect us.

Father, all of these things I ask in the most holy name of Jesus Christ, Your Son. Thank you, Father, for hearing my prayer. I love You, I worship You, I thank You and I trust in You. Amen.*****
 
May our Lord touch your wife’s heart and move her to want to keep faithful to Him and to her marriage vows. May she work on communicating with you her needs and concerns, and know how much you love her. May the Lord send healing and peace to your relationship with your wife and help you both to resolve your problems. May your wife not give up on you or on her faith, but persevere. Amen.
 
Lord please help this good man whose wife is of a personality that cannot admit or see her own shortcomings.
For sake of her soul, and for sake of her husband, please place in her the ability for compassion and understanding which is lacking.

Please heal the many and deep hurts of our brother.
 
wild_thing said:
This is a good prayer that I would recommend to anyone having marital difficulties. God bless.

Hedge Prayer for a Wayward Spouse:

Trusting in the promise that whatever we ask the Father in Jesus’ name He will do, I now approach You, Father with confidence in Our Lord’s words and in Your infinite power and love for me and for my [husband/wife, person’s name] and with the intercession of the Blessed Virgin Mary, Mother of God, the Blessed Apostles Peter and Paul, Blessed Archangel Michael, the guardian angels of myself and [person’s name] , with all the saints and angels of heaven, and Holy in the power of His blessed Name, as ask you Father to send forth Your Spirit to convict [person’s name] and to allow him/her to see any and all wrongs that he has done and how they offend Your infinite goodness.

Father I ask in sorrow, knowing that You do not intrude upon free will, but that You can give Divine Influence like you did with Hosea’s wife, that You send a hedge of thorns and wall around [person’s name] so that he/she cannot find the paths that lead him/her away from me and our marriage, and though he/she shall pursue his/her * , he/she will not * ; though he/she shall seek * , he/she shall not find * ; that no matter what path or what * he/she seeks he/she shall not find satisfaction or happiness until he/she returns to me, his/her wife/husband where he/she may then be taught by Your Holy Spirit the true meaning of marriage and sexuality and to be a good and loving wife/husband, and to know the ways of righteousness and true womanhood/manhood.

Father, I am powerless against these spiritual forces and recognize my utter dependence on You and Your power. Look with mercy upon me and upon my wife/husband. Do not look upon our sins, O Lord; rather, look at the sufferings of your Beloved Son and see the Victim who’s bitter passion and death has reconciled us to You. By the victory of the cross, protect us from all evil and rebuke any evil spirits who are attacking or influencing us in any way. Send them back to Hell and place a wall of protection around this marriage. Send your Holy Angels to watch over us and protect us.

Father, all of these things I ask in the most holy name of Jesus Christ, Your Son. Thank you, Father, for hearing my prayer. I love You, I worship You, I thank You and I trust in You. Amen.*****

Lord, please continue to hear our prayers on behalf of Lost and his wife. May they find Your peace and joy, through Christ our Lord. Amen.
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May God console and guide you.
Our God, please hear the prayers of this struggling man’s heart.
 
I truly hope that God will lift you up to Him and wrap his arms around you. May He console you. Please know that I will be praying for you throughout the day.
 
I will pray a rosary for you and your wife. God bless :console:
 
Dear Lord,
Please help this couple to reconcile. May You open up their channels of communication and allow both parties to understand each other. May they avoid divorce and embrace each other with the love that is Your gift.
Thank you Jesus,
Amen.
 
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to thy protection, implored thy help, or sought thine intercession was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto thee, O Virgin of virgins, my mother; to thee do I come, before thee I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in thy mercy hear and answer me.

Amen.
 
Praying for you still.
Our dear Lord please flow Your reviving love into his heart and life.
Please bring about what is holy and wholesome in his life.
 
Our Father who art in heaven,
hallowed be Thy name.
Thy kingdom come,
Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread
and forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation but deliever us from evil.
Amen.

Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of our death.
Amen.

Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit,
as it was in the beginning, is now, and ever shall be world without end. Amen
 
I am very sorry to hear this lost. I find myself in a similar situation. It is very hard, and I often feel that it is more than I can bear. Be hopeful, the sufferings we endure in this life are very painful, but suffering does not last forever. There is a season for everything, and suffering will pass. God can change hearts, but he cannot change a heart that refuses his love.

God does see your suffering, he does care about your suffering.

Lord I pray that you comfort lost person in this time of hardship and grief. Send your angels to comfort his breaking heart. St Joseph, Blessed Mother, St Monica, please hear his cries and intercede on his behalf. We pray that you will have renewal and restoration of your marriage. We pray that your wife will change her mind and see the merit and value of your vows.

Whatever happens Lord, may your will be done. Remind lost person and his wife that no matter what, you want to show your love to them. Remind them that you are forgiving and merciful. Please Lord, no matter what happens, give them both great personal and emotional healing to help them both deal with the circumstances of this life.
 
My Lord, if he may be walking through fields that are rough with grief and care, may he have the courage to continue on to the smooth pastures, where he may walk with comfort and peace. May he not let the weariness and sorrow that may come to his heart today dwarf his hope and enjoyment of the future. Amen.

Hail Mary full of Grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed are thou among women and blessed is the fruit of thy womb Jesus. Holy Mary Mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death Amen.

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