Lost, sinner, need guidance, keep losing control

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Ever since I was a child, after I had been molested, I would touch myself unknowning of what I was doing. This continued for years until I realized and I thoughtGod would hate me so I had stopped for years, but now with my bf and my childhood it may be hormones, but I think I am almost hypersexual, I have no will or control or restraint and now I maybe pregnant, idk, I’m late till Sunday officialy but I worry this will be the end of the life I always wanted. Wht do I do? Please pray.
 
Prayers for you. Whatever your situation is you need to go to Confession and get the grace to help you become stronger. This IS possible. If you are pregnant, there is always a purpose for all of us and for the child you carry. God will see you through and walk with you along whatever path if you let him. Please seek out a parish and trusted, faithful people of God who can help. Catholic Charities has many wonderful services as well as many First Choice Clinics should they be in your area.

My prayers,
mlz
 
No problem, you can call or send an email to the priest and let him know what’s going on. I find if I send an email I get a faster response. Just explain everything. He’ll know how to help you since you’ve never made your first confession, also he’ll have advise on dealing with any pregnancy or if not pregnant than your need to stop the sexual activity.

He’s heard it all, believe me. So he won’t be shocked, he’ll be understanding and he’ll get you in contact with any help you may need if pregnant.

I’ll keep you in my prayers. Believe me the hardest part is feeling alone and not knowing what to do. I’m thinking you don’t want to talk to your Mom? Remember, she loves you and she may be the best person to go to and then contact the priest with her.

Good luck and God bless.
 
Our Father, Who art in Heaven,
hallowed be Thy name;
Thy Kingdom come,
Thy will be done on earth as it is in Heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread;
and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us;
and lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil. Amen.
 
Ever since I was a child, after I had been molested, I would touch myself unknowning of what I was doing. This continued for years until I realized and I thoughtGod would hate me so I had stopped for years, but now with my bf and my childhood it may be hormones, but I think I am almost hypersexual, I have no will or control or restraint and now I maybe pregnant, idk, I’m late till Sunday officialy but I worry this will be the end of the life I always wanted. Wht do I do? Please pray.
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Prayers for you. Whatever your situation is you need to go to Confession and get the grace to help you become stronger. This IS possible. If you are pregnant, there is always a purpose for all of us and for the child you carry. God will see you through and walk with you along whatever path if you let him. Please seek out a parish and trusted, faithful people of God who can help. Catholic Charities has many wonderful services as well as many First Choice Clinics should they be in your area.
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My prayers,
mlz
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Very good advice!
I am only 16, and have never confessed before
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Good luck with your first confession. Nothing to worry about. Get the guilt out of the way. The priest will understand. He will not judge you. Jesus Loves Repenting Sinners. I know because I was a lost sinner. Confession gave me my soul back. As bad as it seems, all will be fine. Ask The Blessed Virgin Mary for help. She is always loving and willing to help.

***Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb,
Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of our death
Amen.

:crossrc:***
 
Teese said:
No problem, you can call or send an email to the priest and let him know what’s going on. I find if I send an email I get a faster response. Just explain everything. He’ll know how to help you since you’ve never made your first confession, also he’ll have advise on dealing with any pregnancy or if not pregnant than your need to stop the sexual activity.

He’s heard it all, believe me. So he won’t be shocked, he’ll be understanding and he’ll get you in contact with any help you may need if pregnant.

I’ll keep you in my prayers. Believe me the hardest part is feeling alone and not knowing what to do. I’m thinking you don’t want to talk to your Mom? Remember, she loves you and she may be the best person to go to and then contact the priest with her.

Good luck and God bless.
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More Good Advice!

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Our Father, Who art in heaven,
Hallowed be Thy Name.
Thy Kingdom come.
Thy Will be done, on earth as it is in Heaven. Give us this day our daily bread.
And forgive us our trespasses,
as we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil. Amen.
 
Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou amongst women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.

:crossrc:
 
Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.

Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.

†

Our Father who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.

Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread.

And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.

And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

Amen.

†
 
I can’t get to church, I haven’t been in years, and no I would like to not tell my mom seeing as she is very strict, after I told her I first had sex, she went off, I became so depressed I felt death was better.
 
I am very much close to you in prayer. Please do get to church and reconcile with Christ. He will work wonders on your soul.

I too was going through a similar problem which I thought was impossible to eliminate. Well, after reconciling with the Church, it fully disappeared. This was most certainly the Divine Hand at work.
 
***Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb,
Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of our death
Amen.

:crossrc:***
 
Lifewelllived said:
I can’t get to church, I haven’t been in years, and no I would like to not tell my mom seeing as she is very strict, after I told her I first had sex, she went off, I became so depressed I felt death was better.
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I’m not sure why you say you can’t get to church? ( no transportation?)
Call the church and ask to talk to a priest. Let him know why you can’t come but need to have your first confession( you don’t need to explain your problem over the phone) Don’t be scared or worried- it will be the best choice you’ve made seeking help.
Prayers for you,
mlz
 
You are frightened. You need to share your fear with someone. If it cannot be your mother, there are others who want to assist you. In the back of virtually every Catholic church in the world are pamphlets with information on how to contact a local pregnancy center that respects life. There you will get good counsel and practical help like a pregnancy testing to determine whether you actually are pregnant. If you are, they will help you. You can talk with the priest at the church. He will not be mean to you or embarrass you. He has heard this before, and will know what to do, but don’t let your fear keep you from seeking help. God bless you. I am praying for you.
 
Praying that you talk with someone, Mom or a priest, and get the help and guidance you need.
 
O Christ Jesus,
when all is darkness
and we feel our weakness and helplessness,
give us the sense of Your presence,
Your love, and Your strength.
Help us to have perfect trust
in Your protecting love
and strengthening power,
so that nothing may frighten or worry us,
for, living close to You,
we shall see Your hand,
Your purpose, Your will through all things.
Amen.
 
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