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he is called a righteous man but that doesnt mean every action he did was right
No, but what Lot did isn’t being cross with his wife or some other not-so-good thing that a normally good person would do.

What he did is just evil. There is no overcoming that. I know a good many fathers, and not a single one would ever come close to what Lot did. Each one would do anything to protect his children and guests. This defense of such an act by Lot is so strange to me.
 
What specifically are you claiming I said that is trying to shift the conversation away from what the Bible says? I’m specifically citing it and not turning a blind eye to what it says. I’m also not adding to scripture as some defenders of Lot do.

I pass it with flying colors. 😃 It helps that when the Bible says X I don’t savage the English language to make it say “not X”.

So that means offering up one’s innocent daughters to gangrapists (instead of trying to protect both the men and the daughters) is not a sin. That speaks very poorly of God.

The fact that a crime or evil act was unsuccessful doesn’t negate the intent of the person who committed it. Just because his daughters weren’t raped doesn’t mean that Lot hadn’t committed one of the most evil things a father could ever do. It doesn’t negate that God looks upon all this and sees nothing wrong with it.

That rest includes Lot’s wife, who didn’t try to get her daughters raped, but had the audacity to look back while running for her life escaping a fireballed city.

What happened to Lot’s wife (Notta) and what didn’t happen to Lot was a mockery of what true accountability is.
I know. Thanks for the long post which I do not have time to read. I think it is more appropriate for you to discuss this in the non-Catholic religion. Probably you have better audience there where they can answer you better.
 
I know. Thanks for the long post which I do not have time to read. I think it is more appropriate for you to discuss this in the non-Catholic religion. Probably you have better audience there where they can answer you better.
Unless I’m wrong, I believe the non-Catholic section pertains to faiths that are not Catholic as opposed to posters who are not Catholic. For example, people might ask what faiths believe in consubstantiation or what Hindus think about the afterlife.

We are in the apologetics section, specifically in the Sacred Scripture section, to discuss (and for some defend) what the Bible says and means.
 
No, but what Lot did isn’t being cross with his wife or some other not-so-good thing that a normally good person would do.

What he did is just evil. There is no overcoming that. I know a good many fathers, and not a single one would ever come close to what Lot did. Each one would do anything to protect his children and guests. This defense of such an act by Lot is so strange to me.
perhaps in his desperation to save the guests he blurted it out, which isnt Okay but we should not assume he is evil. he probably repented of it.
 
perhaps in his desperation to save the guests he blurted it out, which isnt Okay but we should not assume he is evil. he probably repented of it.
In order to blurt it out one has to first think it. I ask the parents who are viewing this thread, in particular the fathers, if they would even conjure up such an idea. How far down the list of possibilites would Lot’s idea be below the ideas I mentioned above (including threatening, bribing, pleading with the mob, creating a diversion, prayer) including the idea of self-sacrifice?

No real man then or now would do such a thing. I wouldn’t let it happen to a stranger, but then again I’m not “righteous” like Lot.
 
In order to blurt it out one has to first think it. I ask the parents who are viewing this thread, in particular the fathers, if they would even conjure up such an idea. How far down the list of possibilites would Lot’s idea be below the ideas I mentioned above (including threatening, bribing, pleading with the mob, creating a diversion, prayer) including the idea of self-sacrifice?

No real man then or now would do such a thing. I wouldn’t let it happen to a stranger, but then again I’m not “righteous” like Lot.
You’re not forgetting the possibility that he repented later.
 
In order to blurt it out one has to first think it. I ask the parents who are viewing this thread, in particular the fathers, if they would even conjure up such an idea. How far down the list of possibilites would Lot’s idea be below the ideas I mentioned above (including threatening, bribing, pleading with the mob, creating a diversion, prayer) including the idea of self-sacrifice?

No real man then or now would do such a thing. I wouldn’t let it happen to a stranger, but then again I’m not “righteous” like Lot.
One of the biggest mistakes that ‘modern’ people make in looking back at historical people and events is projecting their own values and belief systems onto them.

Since few people want to take the time and trouble to educate themselves about anthropology and history, and would rather think that Jesus was pretty much the equivalent of a 1960s ‘guru’ with all the knowledge and all the cultural mores of said times, and that ‘people from the Bible’ were pretty much literary versions of contemporary cultural figures, again with all THEIR knowledge and cultural beliefs, it’s disheartening for serious people to see yet another “How could X from the Bible act in such a horrible way and be considered 'good” thread.

The hubris of modern people in assuming that AD2017 Western society is the ONLY measuring rod in which all people of all time are to be both judged, and which they are expected to adhere to, is staggering.

IF people really did want to ‘understand’ there are more than enough sites (and teachers) out there which could help them ‘get educated’, but it would take time away from bloviating one’s superiority to those dreadful Christian freaks, and worse, it might even get so convincing that one would be forced by academic honesty to repudiate the easy cheesy anti-Christian beliefs. . .and in turn to be disgusted and horrified by those who are smugly bringing up the same points one used to do oneself before one became educated.
 
It’s my understanding that the human body contains about 60+% water. The rest is protein and various minerals of one kind or another. Human blood alone contains about the same salt content as sea water.

One needs to remember, too, that salt in biblical times is not like “Morton’s salt” of today. It was highly adulterated with other minerals, organic material and the like because it was frequently just evaporated sea water or worse, some kind of residue from a dirty “salt lick”. It wasn’t the purified salt we’re used to. I have read that people in more primitive times used “salt” like we use tea bags. They didn’t sprinkle it on. They dipped a bag of it into food being prepared. Eventually it “lost its savor” (the salt content) and was discarded.

If Lot’s wife was dessicated completely by some kind of thermal blast, she would have looked like a rather small pillar of what, to the people of the time, would have looked like the salt they were used to. If not completely dessicated, she still would, only larger.

So it’s not far-fetched to think of this as a natural consequence of an unusual (albeit possibly natural) event. As a potential miraculous happening, it doesn’t stretch the imagination at all. One thing about miracles is that we don’t necessarily know when or how God set them in motion. The “seeds” of the event could have been planted eons previously, in the same way our own body composition was (we are assured by physicists) “decreed” by supernovae millions of years ago.
 
You’re not forgetting the possibility that he repented later.
It’s possible that he repented, although we would first have to assume thta Lot realized what he did was wrong.

There is something to consider. If he repented it was after he and his family escaped, and after his wife was turned into salt. That means that the last act Lot did before God decided who would live and who would die was offering his daughters to be gangraped by an entire town of men. This act (which had not been repented for at the time, if ever) was not worthy of death in God’s eyes. Notta, Lot’s wife, looked back during a fiery rampage and was given no chance to repent.
 
One of the biggest mistakes that ‘modern’ people make in looking back at historical people and events is projecting their own values and belief systems onto them.

Since few people want to take the time and trouble to educate themselves about anthropology and history, and would rather think that Jesus was pretty much the equivalent of a 1960s ‘guru’ with all the knowledge and all the cultural mores of said times, and that ‘people from the Bible’ were pretty much literary versions of contemporary cultural figures, again with all THEIR knowledge and cultural beliefs, it’s disheartening for serious people to see yet another “How could X from the Bible act in such a horrible way and be considered 'good” thread.

The hubris of modern people in assuming that AD2017 Western society is the ONLY measuring rod in which all people of all time are to be both judged, and which they are expected to adhere to, is staggering.

IF people really did want to ‘understand’ there are more than enough sites (and teachers) out there which could help them ‘get educated’, but it would take time away from bloviating one’s superiority to those dreadful Christian freaks, and worse, it might even get so convincing that one would be forced by academic honesty to repudiate the easy cheesy anti-Christian beliefs. . .and in turn to be disgusted and horrified by those who are smugly bringing up the same points one used to do oneself before one became educated.
Tantum ergo, let’s travel back – back in time! Let’s go to the time of Lot and put ourselves in Lot’s shoes. Now we just invited in two strangers. Others have said that in that culture it was very important to bend over backwards to serve the needs of one’s guests. I have no reason to dispute such a notion, so we will accept that.

Now we see that every male young and old in town were outside and demanded the two strangers be brought out so the mob could rape them. By the society of then (and now and every point in between) we must do what we can to prevent that from happening. So far we are in agreement.

So here we are thinking about what we can do to protect these guests. I gave several suggestions.

Stalling:
Me: “I will do as you ask. Please be patient!”
Me (quietly to the wife): “I can hold them off for so long. Get some dresses for the sons-in-law and the guests and try to sneak them out if you can.”

Bribing:
Me: “I can not do as you ask, but I will give you any of my possessions, every schekel I have.”

Praying
After going on his journeys with Abraham Lot knows that Yahweh exists.

Threatening:
Me: “Go back to your homes! I can not stop all of you, but I can kill enough of you. Do you want to give up your life so someone else can get with the strangers?!”

Pleading:
Me: “I beg of you to reconsider. Don’t do this wicked thing. There may be grave consequences for all of us if you persist!”

Self-sacrifice:
Me: “The only thing I can offer you is myself. Look, I have never slept with a man. Let me bring myself out to you, and you can do what you like with me.

In that situation, in that time and place, there are several options available. More importantly, none of those options ignore something that rape apologists willingly forget:

A father has an obligation to protect his children just as a man is to protect his guests.

Show me where a man (at that time or any other) does not have such an obligation, where he is not to inconvenience himself for the good of his family, where is not to pray when in dire straits.
 
Tantum ergo, let’s travel back – back in time! Let’s go to the time of Lot and put ourselves in Lot’s shoes. Now we just invited in two strangers. Others have said that in that culture it was very important to bend over backwards to serve the needs of one’s guests. I have no reason to dispute such a notion, so we will accept that.

Now we see that every male young and old in town were outside and demanded the two strangers be brought out so the mob could rape them. By the society of then (and now and every point in between) we must do what we can to prevent that from happening. So far we are in agreement.

So here we are thinking about what we can do to protect these guests. I gave several suggestions.

Stalling:
Me: “I will do as you ask. Please be patient!”
Me (quietly to the wife): “I can hold them off for so long. Get some dresses for the sons-in-law and the guests and try to sneak them out if you can.”

Bribing:
Me: “I can not do as you ask, but I will give you any of my possessions, every schekel I have.”

Praying
After going on his journeys with Abraham Lot knows that Yahweh exists.

Threatening:
Me: “Go back to your homes! I can not stop all of you, but I can kill enough of you. Do you want to give up your life so someone else can get with the strangers?!”

Pleading:
Me: “I beg of you to reconsider. Don’t do this wicked thing. There may be grave consequences for all of us if you persist!”

Self-sacrifice:
Me: “The only thing I can offer you is myself. Look, I have never slept with a man. Let me bring myself out to you, and you can do what you like with me.

In that situation, in that time and place, there are several options available. More importantly, none of those options ignore something that rape apologists willingly forget:

A father has an obligation to protect his children just as a man is to protect his guests.

Show me where a man (at that time or any other) does not have such an obligation, where he is not to inconvenience himself for the good of his family, where is not to pray when in dire straits.
Mike, I’m not your mommy or your teacher. Your scenarios are based simply and solely on your personal opinion of behavior as viewed through the lens of a 21st century Western atheist male.

I don’t do your homework for you. When you know enough about cultural anthropology to be able to recognize and understand human actions outside of your own little life-slot and personal culture, come on back and we can have an intelligent and rational discussion. .
 
Mike, I’m not your mommy or your teacher. Your scenarios are based simply and solely on your personal opinion of behavior as viewed through the lens of a 21st century Western atheist male.
No, as I presented them they showed that a man at that time and place had at least 5 different things he could have done to both protect his guests and his family. These same options are not contingent on where and when they occur. A man in the Viking age could threaten his tresspassers just as Lot could have. A man in the midst of the height of the Ottoman Empire could have prayed to his god just as Lot could have prayed to his. A man in modern day Perth Amboy could charge into the crowd to try and give his guests and family an opportunity for possible escape, just as Lot could have.
I don’t do your homework for you.
I’m not asking you to do my work for me, but it’s appropriate that you do your work. In other words, this is a discussion forum. We are to argue various points on opposite of ends of an idea. I proposed that what Lot did was wrong partially on the other things he could have done but didn’t. You suggested that I needed to consider the time and place when making statements about Lot’s action (and inaction). I layed out how the time and place has no bearing on not putting your daughters up to be raped. I showed that one’s obligation to protect one’s guests is in no way in conflict with the obligation to protect one’s children.

You’re response was a wordier version of “Nuh-uh!”, full of bluster and devoid of counterpoints. When you make a statement you are also making an agreement to backup said statements. You gave yourself homework then didn’t do it.

If you think there is something that shows my various options for Lot were not viable based on an alleged knowledge of cultural anthropology, then it is your duty to present it. Otherwise there are plenty of folks here who are not averse to research who can debate this matter.
 
It’s possible that he repented, although we would first have to assume thta Lot realized what he did was wrong.

There is something to consider. If he repented it was after he and his family escaped, and after his wife was turned into salt. That means that the last act Lot did before God decided who would live and who would die was offering his daughters to be gangraped by an entire town of men. This act (which had not been repented for at the time, if ever) was not worthy of death in God’s eyes. Notta, Lot’s wife, looked back during a fiery rampage and was given no chance to repent.
The two angels had to drag the four out forcibly to get them to leave. And right after that his daughters committed incest. Pretty righteous family huh?

God saved him for Abraham’s sake, not because of anything he did.
 
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If you think there is something that shows my various options for Lot were not viable based on an alleged knowledge of cultural anthropology, then it is your duty to present it. Otherwise there are plenty of folks here who are not averse to research who can debate this matter.
The president’s body guard is confronted by an angry mob of gay persons. He grabs his daughter and books it, he is called a traitor. The bodyguard dies trying to save the president but the president gets it and so does everyone else in the resulting ‘feast’. he is a failed hero of sorts. The man sacrifices his daughter to save the president he is called a hero.🤷
 
Lot chose to live in the wicked city of Sodom (Genesis 13:12-13). He offered his two virgin daughters to an angry mob of homosexuals (Genesis 19:5-8). He later became drunk and impregnated his daughters, albeit unknowingly (Genesis 19:30-36). Anyone vaguely familiar with Old Testament history likely knows of Lot and his troubles. For this reason, some find it troubling that Lot is called “righteous” in the New Testament. Peter, in fact, used the term “righteous” three times to describe the patriarch: (2 pet 2:7-8)

Why did Peter repeatedly call Lot “righteous” when many see a different picture of Lot in Genesis? Was Lot really righteous? Does the Bible contradict itself?

First, one must keep in mind that though a Bible writer may have recorded specific sins and foolish acts of an individual does not mean that the person could not also have been righteous. Christ was the only perfect man ever to live (2 Corinthians 5:21; 1 Peter 2:22)

Consider also the harlot Rahab. Whereas God did not condone her harlotry, she was “justified by works when she received the messengers and sent them out another way” (James 2:25). “By faith the harlot Rahab did not perish with those who did not believe, when she had received the spies with peace” (Hebrews 11:32). Simply because God graciously saved Rahab from the destruction of Jericho, does not mean that God condoned her past sexual sins.

Similarly, just because Peter called Lot righteous does not mean that Lot was perfect. Even the apostle Peter, who also served as an elder in the Lord’s church (1 Peter 5:1), was guilty at one time or another of having a lack of faith (Matthew 14:31), denying that he knew the Lord (Matthew 26:69-75), and hypocritically withdrawing himself from Gentiles (Galatians 2:11-14).

Second, Peter’s statements about Lot’s righteousness must be considered in their proper context. Similar to how Noah was an island of righteousness surrounded by a sea of iniquity (2 Peter 2:5), Lot was surrounded by extremely “wicked,” “filthy,” “lawless” citizens of Sodom (2 Peter 2:7-8). Although Lot was far from perfect, he was not a wicked, lawless unrighteous citizen of Sodom; he was righteous. Lot separated himself from the unlawfulness of the inhabitants of Sodom and was even tormented “day to day by seeing and hearing their lawless deeds” (2 Peter 2:8).

Though Lot’s offering of his daughters to the sodomites is inexcusable (as it seems were Abraham’s actions in Egypt and Gerar when he allowed his wife to be taken by kings in order to preserve his life; see Genesis 12:10-20; 20:1-18), ****Genesis 19 clearly indicates the distinction between the righteousness of Lot and the wickedness of the inhabitants of Sodom. The sodomites even hinted at such when they declared that Lot “keeps acting as a judge” (Genesis 19:9).

This was the distinction Peter made—not that Lot was perfect, but that he remained uncontaminated by the intense iniquity prevalent throughout Sodom. Like Christians today who strive to walk in the light, though they are imperfect (1 John 1:5-10), Lot was a righteous man, who also made some memorable mistakes.

How was Lot Righteous
 
I think it is easy to take the description literally, even today.

We have all seen the striking images of those people from Pompeii in the very act of trying to escape the eruption of Vezuvius, frozen AS IF they were turned into salt. The writer of the Bible may have used the wording a pillar of salt, not because Lot’s wife became a human salt lick, but because the closest image imaginable was of a pillar of salt.
 
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