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Basically, I’m in love with a wonderful girl, who also seems to have a special place for me in her heart, but she’s fresh from break-up from a long relationship and her plan was to give herself some rest, understandably. I don’t know where that places us, but I would hate to lose her.
 
Lord please help chevalier to be able to take things gently and respectfully with this girl who attracts him.
Please give her healing and help her to recognise chevalier as someone to wait for and welcome and she recovers from her hurt and loss.

Please guide them both with wisdom and authentic love.
Thank You, Lord
 
chevalier said:
Basically, I’m in love with a wonderful girl, who also seems to have a special place for me in her heart, but she’s fresh from break-up from a long relationship and her plan was to give herself some rest, understandably. I don’t know where that places us, but I would hate to lose her.
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If you love her as you say, and If you Love her as a child of God, then do the following:
  1. Be her friend. Do not pressure her. Laugh with her, cry with her, understand her.
  2. Let her know that you are “very fond” of her and that, when she is feeling up to it, you’d like to take her to dinner and a show, or whatever.
  3. Let her know that you will be there for her.
  4. Pray for her healing from her previous relationship.
Father, be with these people. Help them both to know your will for them.

Peace
James
 
chevalier said:
Basically, I’m in love with a wonderful girl, who also seems to have a special place for me in her heart, but she’s fresh from break-up from a long relationship and her plan was to give herself some rest, understandably. I don’t know where that places us, but I would hate to lose her.
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Call what you desribed as that “special place in her heart” a “Beachhead”.
Now go conquer the rest! 🙂
 
chevalier said:
Basically, I’m in love with a wonderful girl, who also seems to have a special place for me in her heart, but she’s fresh from break-up from a long relationship and her plan was to give herself some rest, understandably. I don’t know where that places us, but I would hate to lose her.
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Our Father who art in Heaven
Hallowed be Thy Name! Thy Kingdom Come, Thy Will be done
On earth as it is in Heaven
Give us this day our daily bread
And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us!
Lead us not into temptation
But deliver us from evil

For Thine is the Kingdom, the Power & The Glory
Forever & ever
Amen.

Lord send your Holy Spirit to our brother Chevalier today to guide him in wisdom & in Love. Give him the grace to love this girl with all his heart as he loves you Oh Lord.
We ask this through Jesus Christ our Lord
Amen.

Also it might be good to look at 1 Corinthians 13

Your brother in Christ,
Zachary
 
May you place all your trust in the Lord and not worry about losing a place in the heart of your loved one. If you could just remain her friend for now and love her as your sister in Christ, God will be sure to keep blessing your relationship with her. Peace and God bless!
 
Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of our death.
Amen
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Thank you for your prayers, Everyone. 🙂 Please don’t forget me yet. Just to clarify, this is an early situation, in which “in love” is early for to say, and saying that she apparently has a special place in her heart for me, comes from observing her behaviour, listening to her. The information about her “situation” was anything from a fair warning to a large statement, this is why the future is uncertain (to the point I don’t know if the closest meeting isn’t the last one). Didn’t want to give anyone a false impression. Thank you also for prayers for her, as I should have asked in the first place. 🙂
 
chevalier said:
Thank you for your prayers, Everyone. 🙂 Please don’t forget me yet. Just to clarify, this is an early situation, in which “in love” is early for to say, and saying that she apparently has a special place in her heart for me, comes from observing her behaviour, listening to her. The information about her “situation” was anything from a fair warning to a large statement, this is why the future is uncertain (to the point I don’t know if the closest meeting isn’t the last one). Didn’t want to give anyone a false impression. Thank you also for prayers for her, as I should have asked in the first place. 🙂
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Just remember this, ‘Faint heart never won fair woman’. 👍
 
According to her words, she likes me very much, is happy to have met me (which was 2 weeks ago), my treatment of her is nice to her, but she’s a colleague to me and I to her and she’s still beholden to the ex. Some of her actions contradict her words, and being a lawyer and a people person with a number of romantic failures in my dossier, I can probably assess some things more or less correctly. I hope she will open up, as does the mutual acquaintance who introduced us to each other. She believes her to be a very special girl and holds me to be a good person, thinking we would be good for each other, as well as supposedly everything was visible on me from the moment I first saw her… Perhaps God has other plans, though I was warming up to the thought I had finally found the one lady.
 
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