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Alan, give us a scenario where love and faith would be at odds. This is the part that now has me confused I guess.
Great point. Just remember that:I’ve watched on this forum as people who (are either lying or) are truly trying to do the right thing, are thwarted at every step by the Church because she is ostensibly bound by her own rules.
Dear mark a,Great point. Just remember that:
Where else could you possibly go?Code:* this forum is not the Church * many of us have similar issues, it's not possible to be a perfect Catholic. Just look at the way the Jesuits and Franciscans talk about each other. * posts about unresponsive, neglectful, uncaring, (or whatever) Church leadership is only one side of the story.
Dear Jim G,Is this thread really about annulments?
If so, then keep in mind that while love is primary, it does not change reality.
Code:* A marriage was and is either valid from the beginning or not. * Jesus taught that divorce is not acceptable and so the church cannot teach otherwise. * One cannot be married to more than one person.
- The marriage tribunal is the church’s process for determining whether or not a marriage was null and void from the outset.
- Forgiveness is always possible. But forgiveness can’t undo a valid marriage.
Dear bear06,Alan,
What did Christ say about what would happen when he left us on earth?
You can’t seem to fathom that if the Church were not always right in her teachings on Faith and Morals whether spoken infallibly or not that Christ must’ve not kept his promise. If you were correct in your assumption that the Church is not infallible in Faith and Morals then we are left to wander this earth not knowing what is really from God and what is not. It certainly wouldn’t be the One, True Church if its teachings could lead people astray.
You might want to read Paul’s letters to Timothy. It talks much about faith and love together and the safeguarding of the transmission of the Faith.
If so, then what do you mean to suggest? Doesn’t the Spirit live in each one of us? If so, then maybe a person who is educated in theology might be more able to discern the Spirit, but does that make him infallible where the rest of us are not? I have no status in the Church, so I am one of the little ones, am I not? I have also been called “childish” on this forum…The Advocate, the holy Spirit that the Father will send in my name–he will teach you everything and remind you of all that (I) told you.
Luke 10:21:At that time Jesus said in reply, "I give praise to you, Father, Lord of heaven and earth, for although you have hidden these things from the wise and the learned you have revealed them to the childlike.
Why is it so impossible that my opinion is automatically wrong unless it agrees with the wise and learned Bible scholars?At that very moment he rejoiced (in) the holy Spirit and said, "I give you praise, Father, Lord of heaven and earth, for although you have hidden these things from the wise and the learned you have revealed them to the childlike. Yes, Father, such has been your gracious will.
Things like this are among the many reason I keep second-guessing Church teachings.The Lord Jesus insisted on the original intention of the Creator who willed that marriage be indissoluble. He abrogates the accommodations that had slipped into the old Law. Between the baptized, “a ratified and consummated marriage cannot be dissolved by any human power or for any reason other than death.”
Far away from the Church teaching. Ritual cleansing? Until the sheep dances the right tune ??? Cmon…I’ve watched on this forum as people who (are either lying or) are truly trying to do the right thing, are thwarted at every step by the Church because she is ostensibly bound by her own rules. Maybe, just hypothetically, for sake of discussion I will concede that she is infallible in faith and morals. Nevertheless, she is taking her prodigal sons and instead of welcoming them she is blaming them, holding them bound, testing them, and doing everything she can to prevent their getting back into the flock until she is satisfied that they have undergone sufficient “ritual cleansing” and even then their reception back into the Church is not guaranteed. Dare I hint that this is not love, but hypocracy? The cleaning on the outside for all to see is more important than what is inside their hearts, it would seem.
Jesus teaches that a good shepherd will leave the flock to find a lost one. Here you have a sheep trying to get back in, but the shepherd is saying “I don’t know you” and locking the gate until the sheep dances the right tune. Perhaps that tune is a crashing gong or clanging cymbal.
Our love is small and conditional. Love that is greater than our faith is God’s Love for us. Jesus said “There is no greater love than this, that a man die for his friends” (to save them). This is God’s love.Love trumps faith because:
Jesus teaches us that love is greater than faith and morals; Abraham would kill his son to save his own soul while Jesus allowed himself to be killed to save others.
That does not mean we each can infallibly interpret the Spirit.Doesn’t the Spirit live in each one of us?
Where is the Church legalistic?Why can’t the Church spend a little of the effort it expends on legalistics and spend more time on teaching about how to allow the Holy Spirit in. For example, contemplative prayer?
The Church has always taught the Jesus was referring to issues of an invalid marriage.My point was that if Jesus specifically gave an exception to the ban on divorce, why does the Church fail to acknowledge it?
Dear veritas,Love – now “God is love” and love remains throughout eternity, and in fact, becomes far far stronger in heaven than it could possibly be on earth! “God is love” – not “God is faith” or “God is hope”. Therefore, love is the highest, the most noble, the most beautiful of the virtues. BUT while we are on earth, Faith and Hope are just as necessary as love. Christ, both Himself by personal graces, and through the ministry of His Church (and her teachings and “rules” that you dislike) supply us with the means necessary to live out lives with all three virtues. Every Christian, in fact, is called to a life of holiness – a life of faith, hope and yes, love.
I’m not going to disagree with you, and unfortunately I have not seen the Divine Comedy. If Jesus did not descend into hell, then the Church needs to revise the Apostle’s Creed. I was taught the Apostle’s creed when I received my first communion over 35 years ago, and if it is wrong the Church has had plenty of time to fix it. I thought that when we professed a “creed” that meant that actually believed what we were saying, but apparently not even the Creed is without convoluted interpretations. Now my own children are learning it in school, and you’re telling me that it contains mistruths?Also, regarding your confusion about Jesus descending “to hell” in the Apostle’s Creed: Church teaching agrees with what someone else pointed out, namely, that in this instance, the Church has always considered that Jesus descended more precisely “to the dead” (as is still said in many translations of the Apostle’s creed today), which is different from the eternal hellfire. As Dante showed so splendidly in his work “The Divine Comedy”, Jesus entered into the place where the “righteous ones” were sent to await the coming of the Messiah on earth. Thus, he “descended into hell/to the dead)”
I was not trying to find a way using canon law, because I know almost nothing about it. What I was trying to suggest is that the Church has a teaching on divorce that seems to be more strict than what Jesus taught. In 19 out of 20 Bible versions, Jesus allows divorce for sexual transgressions by the spouse. In the NAB, it simply makes vague reference to the marriage not being valid. I don’t know what was actually written way back when, nor do I know those languages. I have to wonder, however, why it is that so many versions, including KJV, specifically refer to sexual sins as reason for divorce and yet the Catholic Church does not accept that reason. Jesus made a habit of loosing sinners who were lawfully condemned, but here we are binding certain divorcees who are not held bound by Jesus. That’s where I wonder if we have strayed away from the “love” concept toward the “legalistic” side.Alan, I didn’t quite follow your reasoning in the case where you said that no annulment would be necessary, but I’m not expert in canon law on marriage, and I’m sure that there may be such cases. Something like the Pauline privelige comes to mind.
It can and does happen in the Church, at least at the parish and diocesan level. I’ve personally gotten beaten up for trying to work within channels and within my alleged authority, to do something about it. Worse yet is when the letter of the law contradicts itself. When I see this stuff flowing upwards and downwards between the parish and diocese it’s hard to believe it doesn’t happen at other levels. Disclaimer for those who have figured out who I am: the issues I’m bringing forth are based on my experiences before the current pastor was in place, and when I was raising them I did them with full knowledge and consent of the pastor then in place.Having worked in a bureaucracy myself, though not a church bureaucracy, I understand that there is always a tendency to go by the letter of the law even when a view of the larger picture would show it to be counterproductive. I’ve seen cases in which people following the minutiae of the regulations actually defeat the intent of the initial legislation. So I’m sure that can happen in church bureaucracies too.
I have no disagreement with you, philosophically.When it comes to marriage, a great part of the problem in our current society seems to be that many people (at least initially) treat marriage as if it were nothing; while the church treats every marriage as if it were valid, binding, and permanent (as it is required to do.)
People then become upset when what to them was a trifle long ago dispensed with is treated so seriously by the church.
But the church must treat marriage seriously. It is probably the last remaining institution in todays world that does so.
Hey, thanks, veritas!The website www.greekbible.com is a great resource to discover the Bible in its original and/or earliest translated langauge. Using this resource is slightly tricky, your best bet is to have your English Bible right in front of you when you look up a specific passage. This is because the passge will display in Greek only–you translate individual words by clicking once on them. The various possible translations then pops up.
Dear JimG,There is one other caution that we have to observe as posters on a public forum, when people in effect “bring” their marriage cases to us.
That is that we can only know what the poster says. We have no (name removed by moderator)ut from any other parties, including any member of the church staff or marriage tribunal, who would be prohibited from revealing anything anyway.
So with the limited, and necessarily one-sided information presented in a public forum, it is nearly impossible to give any useful opinions, no matter how supportive we wish to be. People with marriage problems should really be encouraged to visit with a priest they trust or to communicate with the tribunal directly.
Hello veritas,Because of this, I might suggest that you look more closely into studying the original, or at least oldest, languages of the Bible – Greek, primarily.
The website www.greekbible.com is a great resource to discover the Bible in its original and/or earliest translated langauge. Using this resource is slightly tricky, your best bet is to have your English Bible right in front of you when you look up a specific passage. This is because the passge will display in Greek only–you translate individual words by clicking once on them. The various possible translations then pops up.
Sort of. I know that is ambigious… but that’s the way the cookie crumbles when you are talking about bits of ancient writing.Then I read a little further and it said Greek Hebrew bible on disk, King James Verson. I thought what would I want with a Greek Hebrew bible on disk that had been translated from the King James Bible. Is the Greek Hebrew site you talk about from the original texts of the bible?