What is the problem with observing the fact that some forms of the mass are more solemn than others?
I’m always puzzled by this cultural notion that it is somehow offensive or wrong to observe the excellence of one thing in comparison to another. “All people are equal.” Actually, no, we come with all sorts of different characteristics: tall, short, sanguine, phlegmatic, intelligent, simple. We are not equal in all of our attributes, but we are equal in the sense that we share the same human nature, and the same dignity which comes from the fact that we were made in the image and likeness of God.
In the same way, different forms of the mass have different attributes, and some of them can certainly be said to be more conducive to prayer or more uplifting to the soul, in general. Recognizing the excellence of something does not mean one is denigrating something else, or denigrating the people who may like something else.