Tom: Great reflection and meditation questions/thoughts. However, I think the other posts hit on the fundamental “hurdle” or “challenge” when we approach Mary’s reaction and her words to Archangel Gabriel…She is literally “full of grace”…with no weaknesses…full of the “sanctifying life of God”… she has no original sin or consequences of original sin…and we all clearly do…so we are not able to think as she thinks/thought:
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CCC 418 As a result of original sin, human nature is weakened in its powers, subject to ignorance, suffering and the domination of death, and inclined to sin (this inclination is called “concupiscence”).
*Frank Sheed’s:
To Know Christ Jesus (pg 32)
*“Gabriel’s opening words are Hail, full of grace, the Lord is with thee; blessed art thou among women.” Mary made no reply; Gabriel misunderstood her silence. Perhaps remembering Zechariah, he told her not to be afraid. Clearly, he did not yet know her very well. Contact with Zechariah was no preparation at all for understanding Mary of Nazareth."
*Note: Frank Sheed even asks the question:
*“Did the angel appear, visibly I mean? Luke does not say so this time, though he does say that Zechariah saw him…Mary would not have needed these outward showings of Gabriel’s splendor: for her own was greater.”
To Know Christ Jesus (pg 31-32).
*Read the account of the appearance of Gabriel to Zechariah and compare it to his visit to Mary…and you will see what Mr. Sheed is getting at…his precision in reading the gospel words is quite remarkable.
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Sheed also notes that the words: *** "…blessed art thou among women…" (most scholars think it was Elizabeth…not Gabriel who said them)…would have gotten Mary’s attention because she knew how they were applied to two other women the Old Testament (Hebrew Scriptures):
"Jael
who saved God’s people by hammering a tent peg into the skull of the enemy leader Sisera (Judges 4: 21)…and Judith who had saved God’s people by cutting off the head of the enemy leader Holofernes (Judith 13:6-8)."
To Know Christ (pg33)…Do these verses sound similar to God’s prediction to the Satan in the Garden about the Woman who will one day crush his head?..and save (not redeem) his people!
The key to me is Mary’s statement…
."…how can this be…I know not man…"…she is asking God two things:…if you have already approved and accepted my consecration to you as a perpetual virgin…it is your will that I have carried out as a consecrated perpetual virgin…and you concurred that I will have no relations with a man…so, I will need your help…to bear your Messiah." Then Gabriel clarifies (that God is honoring her consecration to him as his will for her) and that that the Holy Spirit will overshadow her and the son born of her will not oly be the Messiah…but will be the Son of God…clearly, not the Son of Joseph. So Mary is really confirming that her virginity all along was God’s will even though she is betrothed to Joseph…I believe that even without being chosen to be the Mother of God-The Messiah…she would not have had sexual relations with Joseph…because she was already consecrated as a pepetual virgin…which fits with tradition (small “t”) that Joseph was quite a bit older and also that he died when Jesus was still a very young man.
I hope this helps (not in answering anything…but in providing “food for thought”) in the sense that it provides a possible or plausible perspetive on Mary’s meeting with Gabriel.
One last thing…one of the visionaries in a Marian apparition (I believe that it was Sister Lucia at Fatima) asked the Blessed Virgin…what part of the “Hail Mary…” prayer is her most favorite part?..Blessed Mother Mary answered: “…the Lord is with you…” AMEN!
Pax Christi