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Peter_J
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I can relate to your experiences … I myself had a Lutheran roommate in grad school whom I found quite disagreeable, and who would make nasty comments about Catholics.Just speaking from my own limited experience, there may be something here that is particular to that geographical brand of Lutheranism.
I grew up in the eastern part of the country, and my life-long best friend is Lutheran.
I never experienced anything like you describe in my relations with other Lutherans in the east.
However, when I went to college in the mid-west, I experienced first-hand (and for the first time) an unsolicited bitterness and bigoted nastiness (bordering on hatred) for Catholicism (by Lutherans). It was the first time in my life that anyone ever said nasty things about my religion right in front of me, knowing full well that I was Catholic! And the comments were not just about the Faith, but about Catholics themselves! One comment I remember was “Well, I’m sorry, but where I come from all of the Catholic kids were complete snots.”
When I returned to the eastern part of the country and gained employment, a newly hired Lutheran colleague from the midwest made continual snide remarks about Catholicism, again, right in front of me, knowing full well that I’m a Catholic. The comments are very sarcastic and mean. This particular person is actually quite “tolerant” of just about anything at all but Catholicism. The comments come from nowhere, and are 100% unsolicited.
This has led me to believe that there really are huge geographical differences, so much so that a certain geographical group of Lutherans seem to think they can talk this way without impunity. They seem to think that kindness, tolerance and charity are for everyone except Catholics.
I’m also sorry to hear that your experiences have led you to believe that this common among Lutherans in the mid-west.