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I made a general confession for the first time. It was to a priest I had never met before. What surprised me is that he told me that if I were to ever make a general confession again, I was never to reconfess these sins that I just said. I was to start from that day on. That surprised me. I thought a general confession was always a confessing of your entire life. Does anyone know what the norm is? Thanks!
 
In the Ignatian tradition, a general confession can be part of the 1st week of the Spiritual Exercises.
Using the Examen, one looks at their life , in general terms, looking for patterns of sin, and their disordered attachments.
A general confession is about acknowledging one’s human failings that help to keep one from achieving the “Principle & Foundation”- the ulitmate goal of Ignatian spirituality.

Here is a link to the Exercises, but a word of warning- it is not meant to be read as a book, it is more of a guide for the spiritual director to guide the retreatant. It is very important to have a competent spiritual director, who is well versed in Ignatian spirituality, if you are going to embark on the journey that is the Spiritual Exercises.
 
What the confessor said strikes me as odd, too, but then again, I’m doing the Exercises myself. Out of curiosity, was it a Jesuit or someone else familiar with the Exercises that heard your general confession? That might cast some light on it.
 
What the confessor said strikes me as odd, too, but then again, I’m doing the Exercises myself. Out of curiosity, was it a Jesuit or someone else familiar with the Exercises that heard your general confession? That might cast some light on it.
I went to a fssp priest. Mostly because of what I’ve read about them on this forum.
 
I went to a fssp priest. Mostly because of what I’ve read about them on this forum.
Yeah, that’s what my FSSP priest said too when someone asked him about it. Your next general confession would be based on the date from your most recent general confession.

I’ve been thinking about doing one (ok, I’ve started my examination of conscience, and I can’t get over how long it is already), and I’m assuming because I’ve never done one before that mine would be from my first Confession 18 years ago (though, I doubt I’d remember much from my childhood).

Just wondering, how long did yours take and did you just go during the assigned time, or did you book an appointment? I don’t like the idea of appointment-booking for Confessions, and my priest never mentioned anything about booking an appointment.
 
I made a general confession for the first time. It was to a priest I had never met before. What surprised me is that he told me that if I were to ever make a general confession again, I was never to reconfess these sins that I just said. I was to start from that day on. That surprised me. I thought a general confession was always a confessing of your entire life. Does anyone know what the norm is? Thanks!
I made one about 2 months ago and it was private and face-to-face in the rectory. I was told the same thing. This is not the same as the post-Vatican II general confession, which requires that at the next opportunity you confess specifically.

I assumed mine picked up from my last good confession. I think what you had and I know what I had was the pre-Vatican II general confession.
 
I made one about 2 months ago and it was private and face-to-face in the rectory. I was told the same thing. This is not the same as the post-Vatican II general confession, which requires that at the next opportunity you confess specifically.

I assumed mine picked up from my last good confession. I think what you had and I know what I had was the pre-Vatican II general confession.
There is no pre-Vatican II or post-Vatican II General Confession. What you’re talking about is General Absolution which is only to be used in extreme emergencies. Any priests who are doing this outside of grave necessity (think 9/11, sinking ship, going into battle, etc) are committing a grave abuse against the sacrament. Do not participate in these general absolution services or whatever they’re called.
 
There is no pre-Vatican II or post-Vatican II General Confession. What you’re talking about is General Absolution which is only to be used in extreme emergencies. Any priests who are doing this outside of grave necessity (think 9/11, sinking ship, going into battle, etc) are committing a grave abuse against the sacrament. Do not participate in these general absolution services or whatever they’re called.
I did not have a general absolution service. I did what what done pre-Vatican II. I made a general confession, in private, with the priest. I had done one many years ago too, when in High School.

I have no idea what you are talking about.
 
I did not have a general absolution service. I did what what done pre-Vatican II. I made a general confession, in private, with the priest. I had done one many years ago too, when in High School.

I have no idea what you are talking about.
I’m talking about this:
This is not the same as the post-Vatican II general confession, which requires that at the next opportunity you confess specifically.
 
Yeah, that’s what my FSSP priest said too when someone asked him about it. Your next general confession would be based on the date from your most recent general confession.

I’ve been thinking about doing one (ok, I’ve started my examination of conscience, and I can’t get over how long it is already), and I’m assuming because I’ve never done one before that mine would be from my first Confession 18 years ago (though, I doubt I’d remember much from my childhood).

Just wondering, how long did yours take and did you just go during the assigned time, or did you book an appointment? I don’t like the idea of appointment-booking for Confessions, and my priest never mentioned anything about booking an appointment.
Where I live there aren’t any FSSP priests. I was curious about the Latin mass and them as confessors. I called the church office and asked to speak to a priest. I explained that I was going to be visiting the area and I had never been to a Latin mass. I had some questions which he answered. Then I told him that I wanted to do a general confession and would it be possible to do that there. He said absolutely and even sounded excited at the request. They have confessions everyday at this chapel and he said to tell the priest that I wanted to make a general confession. He said they don’t have that many confessions. Just don’t do it right before mass. I expressed concern that I didn’t want to make anyone wait, and he reassured me that it was fine. I normally would have made an appointment for this. I was horrified when I saw the confessional and it was the box with a curtain on each side. It was just outside of the chapel near the sacristy. There was one pew nearby for the waiting penitents. I was thinking this was not going to work for this confession and was going to ask for someplace private. But when the priest went in, he turned on a very loud fan. That helped my fears greatly. I would say it took me maybe 20 minutes of just saying sins without giving any background. There was one person waiting when I came out.

I can’t imagine that I will ever encounter another FSSP priest. If I were to do this again, it would be on retreat, or with my regular confessor/spiritual director. I’m not so sure about his advice though. I may have to find a Jesuit priest to ask. I don’t think I would spiritually benefit, the way I did this time, if I didn’t go all the way to the beginning. Maybe I am wrong though.
 
I made a general confession for the first time. It was to a priest I had never met before. What surprised me is that he told me that if I were to ever make a general confession again, I was never to reconfess these sins that I just said. I was to start from that day on. That surprised me. I thought a general confession was always a confessing of your entire life. Does anyone know what the norm is? Thanks!
he gave you personal pastoral counsel for your personal situation. Follow it and don’t second guess the priest in confession.
 
In the Ignatian tradition, a general confession can be part of the 1st week of the Spiritual Exercises.
Using the Examen, one looks at their life , in general terms, looking for patterns of sin, and their disordered attachments.
A general confession is about acknowledging one’s human failings that help to keep one from achieving the “Principle & Foundation”- the ulitmate goal of Ignatian spirituality.

Here is a link to the Exercises, but a word of warning- it is not meant to be read as a book, it is more of a guide for the spiritual director to guide the retreatant. It is very important to have a competent spiritual director, who is well versed in Ignatian spirituality, if you are going to embark on the journey that is the Spiritual Exercises.
If you had confessed and been absolved of certain mortal sins previously and not habitually repeated them, would these need to be brought up again in a general confession, such as if you attended an Ignatius retreat?
 
Any FSSP priest I’ve confessed to have given me sound counsel (excluding the one who thought I was a man and encouraged me to look into becoming a priest :o). I’m pretty sure you can trust it.
 
There is no pre-Vatican II or post-Vatican II General Confession. What you’re talking about is General Absolution which is only to be used in extreme emergencies. Any priests who are doing this outside of grave necessity (think 9/11, sinking ship, going into battle, etc) are committing a grave abuse against the sacrament. Do not participate in these general absolution services or whatever they’re called.
There are General Confessions.

Modern Catholic Dictionary:

GENERAL CONFESSION. The term has two different meanings, both referring to the reception of the sacrament of penance. Most commonly, it means a private confession where the penitent (exceptionally) resolves to confess as far as he or she can all past sins, and not only those since the last confession. The practice is recommended when a person is entering on a new state of life – the priesthood, religious life, or marriage – and is required in some religious institutes by rule to be done annually. Less often, general confession is associated with the granting of general absolution. When general absolution may be validly given, the provision for general confession is that “the penitents who wish to receive absolution” are invited “to indicate this by some kind of sign.” The penitents then say a general formula for confession, for example, “I confess to almighty God.” However, one of the necessary dispositions for receiving valid absolution, when only a general confession was made, is that the penitent “resolve to confess in due time each one of the grave sins which he cannot confess at present.”
 
I made a general confession for the first time. It was to a priest I had never met before. What surprised me is that he told me that if I were to ever make a general confession again, I was never to reconfess these sins that I just said. I was to start from that day on. That surprised me. I thought a general confession was always a confessing of your entire life. Does anyone know what the norm is? Thanks!
Any post baptismal sin is valid matter for confession. So ordinarily one could confess any past confessed sin (Though such may not be recommended…and the say it may happen that ones personal confessor may happen to tell one not to re-confess any already confessed sin from before the general confession). It matters not if one has made a general confession in the past or not. But one could of course if one were to again do a general confession …pick up where one left off…I imagine such was the practice he was familiar with. There are no “rules” I think in terms of a general confession per se when it is purely a devotional confession. If one were to do another in life…one could discuss it with the Priest then.
 
Just to clarify: For most retreatants, there is no requirement to do a general confession during the course (usually, the first week’s material) of an Ignatian retreat. It’s optional. If you do an Ignatian retreat, run the instructions of the priest with whom you did the first general confession past him for his advice on whether you should do another general confession and if so, the starting point for the examination of conscience.
 
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