Male Virginity

[centurionguard]

*How sad. So a guy in his 20’s is looked at as gay or bi, or dishonest, because he is open about his desire to wait for marriage, to have sex? That’s not a message we should be sending to our young men who are working hard to remain virgins. I agree that it’s not the end all be all, I married a nonvirgin, and he is an amazing husband and dad, and I also don’t believe virginal status has anything to do with the type of spouse one will make…but, to send a message to men who are in their 20’s or 30’s that they are somehow ‘‘weird’’ for not ever being physical with a woman, sort of makes us look like the rest of the secular world. *

but, to send a message to men who are in their 20’s or 30’s that they are somehow ‘‘weird’’ for not ever being physical with a woman, sort of makes us look like the rest of the secular world

I agree wholeheartedly with what you state here.

I’m a 52 year old male virgin and I couldn’t give a damn with all this primitive secular male ego of boasting about male status because one considers himself a true MAN because he’s sexually active. What an absurd crock of B.S. especially when one contemplates the fact that physical appetites of sexuality is completely opposed to spirituality.

 

[Annemariels]

I should not have used the word weird in my reply. Please substitute the word unusual. They do not have the same meaning.

And I stand by what I said. If all of those possible red-flag areas check out okay, then she may have found herself a gem.

 

[Mom2Bruno]

Hi OP,

Although your date with that 27 year old virgin didn’t work, I am still going to give you my thoughts on male virgins.

I don’t think it’s weird that grown men are virgins. I have several guy friends who are virgins. One is 49! He is a solid Christian.

My husband was a virgin when he married me. He was 36. He was also a devout Catholic.

I think it’s a good thing if a guy remains a virgin. I don’t care if he’s Catholic, Protestant, Orthodox, Jewish, Muslim, or atheist - he shouldn’t be having sex before marriage. Our society has really made male vs. female virginity a double standard. So not fair!

 

[Brendan]

I dated a girl for 4 years, (18-22) and we were virgins through out that relationship.

I was 28 when I was married and I am very glad (even to this day) that I saved myself for my wife.

 

[Lady_Kikyo]

Because i never met a man who was one. And i know that our society makes it seem like it is strange, i just wanted to know how many couples out there were both virgins until they got married and stuff.

JMJ

Not married yet, but my fiance and I are both virgins. I never thought it was weird, I just considered myself very blessed. With the way society is today, I honestly never expected to marry a man who didn’t have, um, experience there.
Deo Gratias!