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Mattapoisett64
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“Captain of the Cup?” That’s a new one on me. I must have missed the institution of that new “minor order” in RS. If the assigned individual is absent, is there a “Lieutenant of the Cup?”
I came across that website after someone said they visited that parish 30+ years ago and said the church was stunning.“Captain of the Cup?” That’s a new one on me. I must have missed the institution of that new “minor order” in RS. If the assigned individual is absent, is there a “Lieutenant of the Cup?”
Your reply prompted me to visit their website. It got worse: “The Captain of the Bread will distribute the Hosts to the various vessels.” BREAD? Not at that point. I realize it’s Hollywood, but all the drama…The first reference made me laugh. After visiting the site for myself - you’re completely right: very sad.I came across that website after someone said they visited that parish 30+ years ago and said the church was stunning.
If you read that page it’s very, very sad. I now know where MY parish got some of its nomenclature. We have “captains” too – I’m just not sure why we do – they are nothing more than super-EMsHC who do not actually distribute communion.
Ooooh, can I be the “Sergeant Major of the Cup”“Captain of the Cup?” That’s a new one on me. I must have missed the institution of that new “minor order” in RS. If the assigned individual is absent, is there a “Lieutenant of the Cup?”
You can be the Sergeant Major if I can ge the Major General.Ooooh, can I be the “Sergeant Major of the Cup”![]()
I promise to make any “Privates of the Cup” do push up if they approach the altar before the priest consumes the Host![]()
I think a good outcome is much more likely if this is approached in a spirit that makes it clear that it is not an attack at all, but rather an effort to achieve clarification–“Did you mean this to be taken this way?”-- and perhaps to clear up some misconceptions–“well, maybe I’m wrong, but I don’t think we can say it like that, because the Vatican has said this, and in fact, by my reading of this document we’re probably required to do thus-and-so instead…”.You might ask around to see if others on the EMHC team have the same reservations you have. A pack attack is likely to be more successful than a lone wolf operation. http://www.theteacherscorner.net/forums/images/smilies/bricks.gif
I haven’t seen anyone address this issue. If your hands are good enough to pick up the host and give it to someone else, why are they not good enough to receive communion in the first place? Or, if you’re distributing the Precious Blood instead, why would you be distributing what you do not receive yourself?The argument I received in response to an e-mail I sent to the LC on the same subject was that she found it ridiculous (or was it "ludicrous) that someone would receive on the tongue but then distribute Communion with his hands.
I agree with you 100%. Hostility or an open threat to someone’s authority is really going to make trouble all around.I think a good outcome is much more likely if this is approached in a spirit that makes it clear that it is not an attack at all, but rather an effort to achieve clarification–“Did you mean this to be taken this way?”-- and perhaps to clear up some misconceptions–“well, maybe I’m wrong, but I don’t think we can say it like that, because the Vatican has said this, and in fact, by my reading of this document we’re probably required to do thus-and-so instead…”.
It can be very counter-productive, both in the long term and in the short term, to put someone in authority on the defensive. (If their authority is largely imaginary, this is even more so!) Even in parish life, we’re all human. Being discreet, bending over backwards to put the best possible intentions on other people’s motives, and making it clear that you have no interest in being an adversary or making the discussion into a competition of wills are efforts well-spent.
What a depressing argument to use. How coercive and uncompassionate.If your hands are good enough to pick up the host and give it to someone else, why are they not good enough to receive communion in the first place? Or, if you’re distributing the Precious Blood instead, why would you be distributing what you do not receive yourself?
Obviously in this case, because they were being treated almost like concelebrants, they had to receive in the hand in order to not receive before the celebrant. Just goes to show that doing things right in the first place makes it possible to avoid having to do many things wrong.NOTE: All EMs MUST receive the Host in the hand; not on the tongue. Wait to consume the Host until after the Lamb of God and the celebrant has consumed his Host.
The college Mass I was at a few weeks ago had the EMHCs receiving in the hand during the Lamb of God as well. It’s practices like that which make it IMPOSSIBLE to receive on the tongue. Maybe I’m out of my gourd, but it seems to be designed specifically to prohibit the practice. As soon as you forget that there’s two ways to do things, and you make a policy centered around the one way you remember, you end up being exclusive towards those who do things the other way.Obviously in this case, because they were being treated almost like concelebrants, they had to receive in the hand in order to not receive before the celebrant. Just goes to show that doing things right in the first place makes it possible to avoid having to do many things wrong.
It’s wrong. The laity should not even be approaching the altar until AFTER the celebrant has taken communion. They shouldn’t be close enough to be given communion.The college Mass I was at a few weeks ago had the EMHCs receiving in the hand during the Lamb of God as well. It’s practices like that which make it IMPOSSIBLE to receive on the tongue. Maybe I’m out of my gourd, but it seems to be designed specifically to prohibit the practice. As soon as you forget that there’s two ways to do things, and you make a policy centered around the one way you remember, you end up being exclusive towards those who do things the other way.
Yes, I’m aware of that.It’s wrong. The laity should not even be approaching the altar until AFTER the celebrant has taken communion. They shouldn’t be close enough to be given communion.
You are presuming the only reason someone would choose to receive on the tongue is that his hands “are not good enough”.I haven’t seen anyone address this issue. If your hands are good enough to pick up the host and give it to someone else, why are they not good enough to receive communion in the first place?
EMsHC Wanted: Teetotalers and recovering alcoholics need not apply.Or, if you’re distributing the Precious Blood instead, why would you be distributing what you do not receive yourself?
I am sure there is a point, but it is a dubious one at best.It sounds to me like the person in charge is overstepping her authority, but I still think she has a point.
*Were it permitted *for EMsHC to to this, any or all could still receive on the tongue, but it would require the cooperation of another of the EMsHC – “After Father has consumed, please administer your host to me on the tongue, then I’ll administer mine to you, on your tongue or in your hand, as you wish”The college Mass I was at a few weeks ago had the EMHCs receiving in the hand during the Lamb of God as well. It’s practices like that which make it IMPOSSIBLE to receive on the tongue. Maybe I’m out of my gourd, but it seems to be designed specifically to prohibit the practice. As soon as you forget that there’s two ways to do things, and you make a policy centered around the one way you remember, you end up being exclusive towards those who do things the other way.
[NB: I am not, nor ever have been instituted, an EMHC, but I can think of these off the top of my head]
You are presuming the only reason someone would choose to receive on the tongue is that his hands “are not good enough”.
EMsHC Wanted: Teetotalers and recovering alcoholics need not apply.
I am sure there is a point, but it is a dubious one at best.
I repeat: I know nothing that requires an EMHC to receive at all. Here is a f’rinstance:
Suppose an EMHC is scheduled to serve at a particular liturgy, but fails to keep the Communion fast. Should she:
*]Serve without herself receiving?
*]Receive, in violation of the fast, and serve?
*]Remain in the congregation while everyone stares and wonders why she doesn’t go up to serve?
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Whoa. That would imply that receiving on the tongue is not allowed. Now that would be ludicrous…not that I’d put it quite that way when raising the question with those who wrote the rules.The argument I received in response to an e-mail I sent to the LC on the same subject was that she found it ridiculous (or was it "ludicrous) that someone would receive on the tongue but then distribute Communion with his hands.
Anyone who has received under a single species has received Our Lord, whole and entire. A EMHC who distributes the Precious Blood in spite of not having received under that species gives evidence of this, and that there are reasons that an otherwise healthy-looking person might not choose to receive under both species.I haven’t seen anyone address this issue. If your hands are good enough to pick up the host and give it to someone else, why are they not good enough to receive communion in the first place? Or, if you’re distributing the Precious Blood instead, why would you be distributing what you do not receive yourself?
It sounds to me like the person in charge is overstepping her authority, but I still think she has a point.
Do you mean there is some rule that says this? Then it seems similar to “is there a rule that EMsHC must receive?” (Not, apparently, to either of our knowledge)To answer your question, the EMHC should NOT fail to keep the fast or else find a replacement.
Of course, if there were but a single EMHC being used, he would still require Father’s cooperation to receive on the tongue. What would be the dispostion of the host he had been made to hold I cannot speculate.-]Ooooh, unless there were an odd number of EMsHC, and all wished to receive on the tongue – Then Father would be required to adminster to at least one./-]
EDIT: No, that’s wrong: They could just do a round-robin; No ordinary minister necessary.
What if an EMHC cannot legally receive at that time? What if it’s a Communion service after a Mass at which he has already received? Or what if he’s been to two Masses already today, receiving at both, and now he’s at a third Mass as an EMHC? (This would be more likely for an Acolyte (who is a de facto EMHC) I suppose.)Do you mean there is some rule that says this? Then it seems similar to “is there a rule that EMsHC must receive?” (Not, apparently, to either of our knowledge)
Or do you mean it should not happen? Well, yeah: But geeze-louise, it’s not her fault that Father’s homily was short. And then she’s supposed to start whispering up and down the pew seeking a replacement? I don’t think so.