“Mandatory stewardship” which is itself an oxymoron, is required for school children. They have to get a certain number of “ministry points” to graduate. This doesn’t bother me in that we require a certain amount of good works; what does bother me is this is sold as a taste of stewardship. The child has to first perform the service, then as a separate operation fill out a form and get it signed by a witness or person in charge to verify they actually did it.
My own children love to perform service work, but experience a great deal of embarrassment at asking for signatures to prove it because it just seems so petty, and it makes them feel like they’re telling the people in charge they are only doing it to get worldly points. As a result, they have trouble getting points turned in even though they have performed several times the required amount.
Our diocese, the Diocese of Wichita, has a beautiful stewardship program, at least on paper. I happen to have taken formal training in it, and I can tell you that in most parishes it is not what is actually practiced. Actual practices come largely from legacy power-weilding members of different parishes putting their heads together, consulting neither the Word of God nor the stewardship manual, and sometimes directly in contradiction with the manual. Maybe things will improve under this new bishop Jackel; I was hoping for change under Bishop Olmstead but he didn’t stay around very long.
Our diocesan stewardship manual would be a great starting point, I believe, for any diocese (including our own) which wants to embrace stewardship.
Alan