Transfer that thought to the environment of Church and maybe you can see where I’m going with this train: is Mass a side-trip picnic emceed by a very clever extrovert on the way to “real” Sunday activity? Or is it the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass? In theology we are told “lex orandi, lex credendi” (literally, the law of prayer is the law of belief) which means how/what you pray is how/what you believe. For me, that became “how you dress is how you pray/believe.”
Yes, because I am human it took a long time and a lot of second guessing before I actually resumed wearing the veil. At first I agonized about should I or shouldn’t I? How will people react? How will the priest react? Will people smirk when they see that I’m dressing up for Mass? Will they resent my “dressier than thou” outfit?
But I found I was asking the wrong questions. What I should have asked: Is the Mass just a gathering of the faithful around a communal table, or is it a physical-metaphysical-spiritual encounter with the Body, Blood, Soul and Divinity of the ever-living Risen Lord of the Universe, the Master of All, the Creator of Everything, my Beloved Savior? If the former, any outfit will do; if the latter, … well, you get the picture.
By the way … a scarf works just as well as a veil, and if someone wants to start inconspicuously, she might look for a scarf that blends with her clothing or a veil that blends in with her hair color (dark for brunette, light for blonde, etc.). But the only one she should focus on is her Beloved - He’ll think she’s a knockout no matter what!
