Wow, I find this very interesting ! Let me tell you something personal about my first experience with this issue. I am 37. So, born in 1971. Both parents from die hard Catholic families. My father-german, refused to say the Mass in English after the change. He would recite all the responses in Latin (loudly). This continued, until my mother -to whom he was engaged-refused to sit with him. My mother’s southern Italian family was not happy with V2 either because of the loss of devotionals. I grew up hearing about how when it happened , they were told things like, “No one says the rosary anymore”. However, they would never, ever have considered leaving the Church or disobeying the Pope. Thye simply kept on saying the rosary and putting up the pictures of the Sacred Heart of Jesus as always.
In a historical context:
As a kid ,I heard about Archbishop Levebre , on TV I think. Although I didn’t quite understand it.
I remember when the Pope was shot and coming home from school to my mother standing in front of the television crying.
Then I met a friend who told me that she was “more Roman Catholic than I was”. I could not figure this out. I went home and told my father what she said. He said the it didn’t make sense.
Turns out she was SSPX and her family left the Church to follow this Archbishop. Although they didn’t really follow, Mass was once in awhile, their favorite apparition was , you guessed it , Garabandal. Her mother did pray the rosary occasionally and when she did I joined them but felt “embarrassed” for saying Spirit when the said Ghost. By then , I knew that the attitude was that their practice of the faith was superior to mine.
I attended Church with them one Sunday. I think my parents got permission or just thought about it and thought it was OK. Then I was supposed to invite her to attend Mass with me. Her mother’s immediate response was “No, she has to attend her own church”.
I was shocked. I thought they called themselves Catholic? I called myself Catholic. Even if they were strange Catholics to me I never expected that.
It seemed, and from what I’ve read that there still is this attitude of superiority from those who have broken with the Church.
Disobedience is disobedience no matter who does it. The great saints have changed the Church from within. Jesus does not require that we rend His garment.
That friend has told me stories about being screamed at for not wanting to kneel and kiss a bishop’s ring in the basement of their Church. (I will not name the Church) It had a large following of SSPX.
That friend was struggled with the strange Catholicism she inheirited which was really exile Catholicism IMO.
She is now an avowed witch although she believes it’s not evil. After years of struggling with her decisions we no longer speak.
This is just my experience.
Thanks,
MariaTheresa