Mom, don’t be too crazy with your “forbidden artist” stuff… Firstly, how old is your daughter?
If she’s young, then yes, I’d go ahead and keep at eye on what she listens to… If she’s older, just talk to her. Just because she listens to some of his work doesn’t mean she’s believing whatever he believes. As long as she has a good, adjusted, head on her shoulders it could be just fine.
Popping up and banning something because it’s ‘bad’ isn’t going to over too smoothly. While it is your right as a parent, as long as she’s living with you, it’s still again idea to approach things civilly, and not upset her. Saying something is totally off limits will often times just make your kid rebel. And if she’s a teenager? Well, rebellions already a natural thing.
And here’s the deal with Marilyn Manson. He says he is a satanist. And he relies heavily on shock value. And a lot of his music is just kinda… bad.
Overall, he’s just out for as much attention as he can get, really.
That being said, I have a few of his songs on my ipod. Not
all of it is absolutely horrible. A lot of his music I just don’t like, but there are a few songs I appreciate. I think it’s more important to keep the content of individual songs in mind, than it is to “ban” an artist all together.
if your daughter has suddenly become interested in music of this type and the culture that surrounds it you need to find out why
The reason why could simply be she heard a song of his, and liked it.
And that probably IS the reason. Nothing more, nothing less.
My advice to OP: Just ask your kid how they FEEL about his music. How much of it they like, etc. Do they like a few songs? Do they actually like Marilyn Manson in general?
Talk to them if you’re concerned. Don’t just come up to them and say “No, you’re not allowed to listen to that”