Marital Sex and Conflicting Information?

[Livaiduis]

Real love is not found in doing the things we are free to do but in freely choosing that which most surely helps another get to heaven. Your perspective focuses more on what you desire opposed to what God desires. You want God “your way right away” which is why you discount the Church entirely. Jesus, if you love Him, started a Church…He died FOR the Church and yes for you personally. So when you look at the sunrise remember that God desires so much better (a richer, fuller, more self-giving relationship) for you and your girlfriend. Who’s to say that what is in your heart or your conscience is good in the first place? Just because you have a conscience and have a heart doesn’t imply that they are right or good to follow. Repentance allows God to change our hearts once we decide that His ways are what we prefer to our own.

in a way i agree, i forgot to mention that i too have read the bible (forgive me my grammar erros but i’m a belgian), i follow his words ,is good as i can in a world like this, what he said is there are but 2 laws
1 love your God 2 love your fellow man as yourselfs, i try doing this, having respect for all, and i do care…if it think wrong or right,then i simply look for it in the bible, an example…one pope once said forgive me i forgot his name ,homosexuals are no humans they are not even animals…whats teh christianety in that my friend? i cannot see such a think as a Godly sentinse ,not in a lifetime , and who to say what is a right conciense? well its all in that fine book he gave us is it not? i follow that book, and i personally believe the curch he has made has but a fraction left of what we call the curch now, but i understand yoiur opinion do ,don’t get me wrong but i will follow my own heart and i can bare with it ,i m happy i give to poor, i help those i can i say my praires and i love both man and God dearly

 

[LeeLeeMoo]

I personally feel that any part of sex that is done only for one partners pleasure is selfish. My Husband and I always stuck to safe and sensible, there is absolutely no need to go wild in the bedroom and if it worries you too much, pray on it and see a priest.

God Bless.

 

[FromTheAshes777]

I say this with utmost charity:

folks please stay on topic. if you would like to debate the teaching authority of the Church please do so in the apologetics section. all comments should pertain to the topic that the OP brought up, and should generally be focused on helping the OP with her problem. I think it has been established that she DOES believe in the teaching authority of the Church, so that is really not up for discussion on this thread.

Charitably,

Thank you.