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I don’t know where to start???
My wife and I argue rarely, however we argue about the same things. This has been going on for 10 years. On Nov. 1 things blew up. She said some things that really hurt. I’m convinced that the only Real Love, the Only TRUE love, is the Love that God has for us. Everything else is just an Illusion. We’re not suppose to love the temporal things of this world. Honestly, I hate this world.
My only Hope, my only Trust, my only Love, is with God. Father, Son, and Spirit. i love my wife, but the adoration i once had for her is gone.
She has a very good job and makes 3 times more than I do. This she throws up in my face every arguement.
Recently I went back to school. I won’t graduate 'till Spring 2010. I was working part time. But since there was no threat of me working OverTime they had me work 8 or 9am to 10 or 11pm on weekends. I was getting no school work done. My grades were slipping. You need to keep a 75% in every class to remain in the program. It’s a very intense medical program and I have a limited science background so my classess are VERY hard for me.
Anyway, It was my wife’s Idea that i quit the job. She said that we’ll just tighten the belts for 5 semesters and we would be fine. i guess she forgot the tighten the belts part. She continued spending as usual, then when we were Broke it was my Fault for not working. That led to the Huge fight we had.
i have issues with woman to began with. My mother was an abusive woman. Told me I would never amount to anything. That i was a No good Lousy S.O.B. (that last part about the S.O.B.) I always agreed. That no woman would ever want me, etc. then to hear things like this from my wife? It has devasted me. I even told her that she should take a soup ladle and beat me over the head with it, then i could tell Mom i married a woman just like her.
Anyway, i want to go to marraige counseling. My wife refuses. The Church has this “Retroville”) I think?) for people with problem marriaiges. We can’t afford regular Counseling, well, that’s according to my Wife. If anyone has been here, How did it go?
During the semester i was able to close the door in the spare room and study. Now that the semester is over I have to deal with my wife. We havn’t argued since 11/1, but the level of trust is NOT there.
If we had not taken vows in the Church in front of God and our families and friends, I’d be long gone.
Well, any advice would be helpful.
God Bless! Merry Christmas!
My wife and I argue rarely, however we argue about the same things. This has been going on for 10 years. On Nov. 1 things blew up. She said some things that really hurt. I’m convinced that the only Real Love, the Only TRUE love, is the Love that God has for us. Everything else is just an Illusion. We’re not suppose to love the temporal things of this world. Honestly, I hate this world.
My only Hope, my only Trust, my only Love, is with God. Father, Son, and Spirit. i love my wife, but the adoration i once had for her is gone.
She has a very good job and makes 3 times more than I do. This she throws up in my face every arguement.
Recently I went back to school. I won’t graduate 'till Spring 2010. I was working part time. But since there was no threat of me working OverTime they had me work 8 or 9am to 10 or 11pm on weekends. I was getting no school work done. My grades were slipping. You need to keep a 75% in every class to remain in the program. It’s a very intense medical program and I have a limited science background so my classess are VERY hard for me.
Anyway, It was my wife’s Idea that i quit the job. She said that we’ll just tighten the belts for 5 semesters and we would be fine. i guess she forgot the tighten the belts part. She continued spending as usual, then when we were Broke it was my Fault for not working. That led to the Huge fight we had.
i have issues with woman to began with. My mother was an abusive woman. Told me I would never amount to anything. That i was a No good Lousy S.O.B. (that last part about the S.O.B.) I always agreed. That no woman would ever want me, etc. then to hear things like this from my wife? It has devasted me. I even told her that she should take a soup ladle and beat me over the head with it, then i could tell Mom i married a woman just like her.
Anyway, i want to go to marraige counseling. My wife refuses. The Church has this “Retroville”) I think?) for people with problem marriaiges. We can’t afford regular Counseling, well, that’s according to my Wife. If anyone has been here, How did it go?
During the semester i was able to close the door in the spare room and study. Now that the semester is over I have to deal with my wife. We havn’t argued since 11/1, but the level of trust is NOT there.
If we had not taken vows in the Church in front of God and our families and friends, I’d be long gone.
Well, any advice would be helpful.
God Bless! Merry Christmas!
Heavenly Father, we pray for JustReturned. We earnestly come before your throne seeking your help. You have written that the “two should become as one flesh” in a marriage; but that seems to broken down. We know that Satan comes to steal and destroy a marriage; while God comes to restore and sanctify marriages and His people. Work a miracle, call them both to you; wrap your arms of love around them; pour out healing, comfort, forgiveness and deep peace on both of them. Give him a supernatural love for his wife. In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen
