Marriage help

[SeekNFind]

This is so sad! I hate when I hear married people are not having sex because that’s the time to have it! (I look forward to the day when I can have an intimate relationship with my future spouse for the first time. I even put “sexual compatibility” on a list of qualities I want in a spouse because after seeing quite a few of these threads here, I see it really is a big deal.)

I am sorry that you’re going through this and I will pray for you. I hope your wife has a change of heart.

 

[faithfully]

I’m just thinking a couple of things.

Affection shown to children and a dog, IS and SHOULD BE different than that to a spouse.

I can see how a person won’t engage even in a hug, if it’s going to lead to the understanding of sex next.

Does she give you ANY REASON she doesn’t LIKE sex?

I wonder if she’s ever had an orgasm. What’s not to like?

There is a closeness lacking if you don’t know what she doesn’t like.

She’s suggesting there is something wrong with you. Either your drive is teenage like??? Or she thinks sex is “dirty”… Why is that? Have you talked about it?

 

[LiseTravis]

Praying for you & your wife…:byzsoc:

 

[fgh_123]

Once a week is certainly not an abnormal sex drive. Once a day dosen’t sound a lot either.

As for those talking about involving a priest, no offense, but what on Earth is he going to offer?

 

[JillyAnn]

I have no advice, just sympathy and prayers.
I am actually going through something similar(except I am a female). We haven’t been intimate in months… My husband seems to have no interest in having any sort of intimacy…sexual or nonsexual…heck, we don’t even eat meals together b/c he works so much…sigh…all we can do is pray for each other…

For a woman to have zero sex drive is abnormal, to me anyway. She needs so help or needs to be honest with you about why she has no interest. I am so sorry…