marriage on the rocks

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My husband of 5 years and now the father of our 6 month old daughter(which we tried for 3 years to have) has now told me he isnt sure what he wants. He doesnt know if being married is the right answer and wants space. I am heart broken and confused. He is in the military and is facing a very difficult training away from home. He has no desire right now to even talk to me unless it pertains to financial transactions. We have had some rough times in the past but we have always made it through because we are eachothers best friends. What makes it even more difficult is I am staying with his parents right now because of his training.

Please pray for my husband to have a change in heart, love me, and to reconcile our marriage. Please pray that the negative influences and the evil one be removed from our marriage and allow us to become closer to God. Please pray for my husband, our marriage, baby girl, and his safe return home.

Thank you and God bless
 
I will pray for you!

I think that he is facing a difficult training away from home plays a large part in his behavior. I would seek out some help from the military. See if you can find a psychologist to talk to about it and encourage him to go with you. Men who must leave their family to perform their duty can take on some emotionally protective behavior and you may be seeing this here. Hopefully this is something that a military psychologist can assist you with. Also seek out a Chaplin for help. They have seen the best and worse and may be able to provide you with some guidance and spiritual support.

God bless you and your family.
 
Dear friend,I am so sorry. I will pray for You,and keep You in my mind. And please never forget that every cloud has a silver lining. God bless You.
 
Loving God have mercy on this distressed wife and mother.
Please give her wisdom and peace as she prays and waits for Your grace to bear fruit in her husband’s heart. His present life is unsettling his mind and direction, but we humbly and confidently ask You to anchor his heart and mind in You and in this marriage which You ask You to bless.
Thank You our good and loving God.
 
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I think that he is facing a difficult training away from home plays a large part in his behavior. I would seek out some help from the military. See if you can find a psychologist to talk to about it and encourage him to go with you. Men who must leave their family to perform their duty can take on some emotionally protective behavior and you may be seeing this here.
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I think this hit the nail on the head.

Lord, please protect this husband from any psychological harm that may come from the experiences he has or will be going through. Give him strength to remain strong and bond him to his wife and child despite the fear he may be feeling at this time. Protect him at all times and return him safely to his family. I ask this through the intercession of your most Holy Mother, Mary.
 
I went through a period like your husband.
It’s based on fear that youth is over.
I will pray for him.

Dan ✞
 
Thank you all for all your kind words and prayers! I strong believe that with faith and prayer anything is possible. God can move mountains!
 
Thank you all for all your kind words and prayers! I strong believe that with faith and prayer anything is possible. God can move mountains!
 
acurbelo said:
My husband of 5 years and now the father of our 6 month old daughter(which we tried for 3 years to have) has now told me he isnt sure what he wants. He doesnt know if being married is the right answer and wants space. I am heart broken and confused. He is in the military and is facing a very difficult training away from home. He has no desire right now to even talk to me unless it pertains to financial transactions. We have had some rough times in the past but we have always made it through because we are eachothers best friends. What makes it even more difficult is I am staying with his parents right now because of his training.

Please pray for my husband to have a change in heart, love me, and to reconcile our marriage. Please pray that the negative influences and the evil one be removed from our marriage and allow us to become closer to God. Please pray for my husband, our marriage, baby girl, and his safe return home.

Thank you and God bless
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Lord please hear our prayers for this couple and their marriage.May they both open their hearts and minds and guide them to be able to reconcile thier differences.Lord please bless them and thier child Amen

Our Blessed Lady I ask you to pray for this couple and thier child that they will reunite fully as a family Amen

Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
Lord, please protect this husband from any psychological harm that may come from the experiences he has or will be going through. Give him strength to remain strong and bond him to his wife and child despite the fear he may be feeling at this time. Protect him at all times and return him safely to his family. I ask this through the intercession of your most Holy Mother, Mary.
 
Lord please hear our prayers for this couple and their marriage.May they both open their hearts and minds and guide them to be able to reconcile thier differences.Lord please bless them and thier child Amen

Our Blessed Lady I ask you to pray for this couple and thier child that they will reunite fully as a family Amen

Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
I’m still praying for your family.
May Archangel Raphael hold you and comfort you.
( He is the saint of happy marriages ),
 
Lord please hear our prayers for this couple and their marriage.May they both open their hearts and minds and guide them to be able to reconcile thier differences.Lord please bless them and thier child Amen

Our Blessed Lady I ask you to pray for this couple and thier child that they will reunite fully as a family Amen

Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
Lord, please protect this husband from any psychological harm that may come from the experiences he has or will be going through. Give him strength to remain strong and bond him to his wife and child despite the fear he may be feeling at this time. Protect him at all times and return him safely to his family. I ask this through the intercession of Your Most Holy Mother, Mary.
 
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