In theory, according to the natural links between wife and husband ( the natural contract that is at the spring of interpersonnal obligations within couple and the natural institution that is at the spring of duties ), I think that your wife has an natural contractual moral obligation to go to the medical doctor and to take treatment - pills, exercices, psychological therapy with catholic doctor, and to be followed by a priest, if for instance:
She does not want, ever to be active during marital sex;
She does not want natural and moral foreplay and / or natural and moral afterplay;
She is not, ever at the initiative of sexual intercourses;
She is refusing the marital act;
She has problems of vaginismus;
She has no pleasure;
She has no orgasm;
She seems to be frigid;
Why does she refuse to have a talk about her sex drive??? Does she know why? Why and what are her reasons? What for?
Why does she refuse to force herself to practice the marital act that is her marital debt? What are her good reasons, if they are existing?? What does she say about that?
Is she touched by the conjugal jansenism, the marital puritanism, the marital victorianism, the conjugal rigorism, the marital moralism, the marital neo-victorianism, the marital neo-puritanism…etc?
She is in a moral obligation to search why she is like that, no talk about sex and no marital act.
She has to agree to talk about her sex drive problem with you (her husband), with a doctor and with a priest, it is her moral obligation and her moral duty. Woman has to assume her feminity, she has to want to be a female. Wife has to give her whole feminity to her husband. Wife has to receive the virility of her husband.
The wife has to be an educator, a teacher, a professor, a doctor, a nurse, a master, a thinker, a philosopher, and a lover for her husband; the wife has to be a schoolgirl, a student and a follower of her husband.
The woman is or should be the New Eve of her Man - the Fiancée, the Bride, the Sweetheart, the Love, the Mistress, the Lover, the Beloved, the Muse, the Friend, the Best-friend, the Girlfriend, the Helper, the Soul-Mate, the Companion, the Partner, the Associate, the Wife and the Potential Mother, the Female Opposite Number, the Alterity, the Complementarity, The Person who reveals in me, my part of feminity and helps my masculinity -.
She should to pray the Holy Trinity for getting again her holy sexual conjugal mood and her sex drive.
She should force herself sometimes and to make efforts in order to give satisfaction to your husband, then normally, the nature being, she could find again her conjugal sex drive.
She should trust to her husband, he can be a sexual teacher for her, she has to ask him to remotivate her, by a new natural intimity without sex, in the first time, in the respect of natural law.
Is she against the non sexual intimity between you and her?
She is in the moral obligation and the moral duty to ask herself:
What are my psychological issues about my sex drive?
What are my physiological issues about my sex drive?
What are my theological issues about my sex drive?
What are my philosophical issues about my sex drive?
What are my cultural issues about my sex drive?
What are my educational issues about my sex drive?
What are my social issues about my sex drive?
What are my natural moral issues about my sex drive?
What are my supra natural moral issues about my sex drive?
What are my issues about my sex drive?
What are my moral obligations and my moral duties concerning the marital act?
What is the level of my sexual marital love in my marriage?
Am I in love with my husband?
How have I to love my husband within my marriage?
Have I to force myself to have sex for pleasing my husband and doing my marital debt?
What are the rights of my husband about the sex ?
What are my obligations on the sex?
Why am I like that, no marital act with my husband?
