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Alenka
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My wife doesn’t love me anymore.
She doesn’t want to be with me but will stay because of the children.
She says the gap between us is getting bigger and bigger and that I irritate her more and more everyday.
I said I wanted the gap to be smaller between us and she said it would be difficult.
I asked if she wanted us to be closer again and she said she doesn’t know.
She says she will just live with me unhappy and that I won’t change.
I asked her what it was that annoys her and she said who I was, my lack of manners and my lack of education.
She said her biggest nightmare was that our children would turn out like me.
She says she has been unhappy for a long time.
Up until a few days ago everything was fine between us and all of a sudden she is saying this stuff to me.
I know I can be annoying sometimes but so is she and everybody else out there. She always knew about my education, I never pretended to have a degree or anything. We both work, I do most of the housework, I spend more time looking after our children so its not like I sit there all day drinking beer whilst she does everything.
I know we probably don’t talk to each other as much as other couples but what is there to talk about other than the children? I know she doesn’t like it when I wear a hat outside but it is cold and I don’t have much hair left (a hat that her mother bought for me).
I love her so much but wouldn’t want us all to live unhappy until the children are older.
We are both in our 30’s and have been together less than ten years.
We need help but counselling would be no good as I know she would say we don’t need it because she can tell me what I do that’s wrong.
Thankyou.
She doesn’t want to be with me but will stay because of the children.
She says the gap between us is getting bigger and bigger and that I irritate her more and more everyday.
I said I wanted the gap to be smaller between us and she said it would be difficult.
I asked if she wanted us to be closer again and she said she doesn’t know.
She says she will just live with me unhappy and that I won’t change.
I asked her what it was that annoys her and she said who I was, my lack of manners and my lack of education.
She said her biggest nightmare was that our children would turn out like me.
She says she has been unhappy for a long time.
Up until a few days ago everything was fine between us and all of a sudden she is saying this stuff to me.
I know I can be annoying sometimes but so is she and everybody else out there. She always knew about my education, I never pretended to have a degree or anything. We both work, I do most of the housework, I spend more time looking after our children so its not like I sit there all day drinking beer whilst she does everything.
I know we probably don’t talk to each other as much as other couples but what is there to talk about other than the children? I know she doesn’t like it when I wear a hat outside but it is cold and I don’t have much hair left (a hat that her mother bought for me).
I love her so much but wouldn’t want us all to live unhappy until the children are older.
We are both in our 30’s and have been together less than ten years.
We need help but counselling would be no good as I know she would say we don’t need it because she can tell me what I do that’s wrong.
Thankyou.
