Marriage to unbaptized

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I have met a man who is unbaptized, but previously married. He is planning on coming into the church at Easter next year. We are dating, but not yet at the engagement point, and I would like to know before I continue dating him.

Does he have to go through the annulment process?
 
He will have to be declared free to marry before you can proceed with any sort of marriage plans (I urge caution and prudence in giving your heart to someone until you know they are free to marry).

Because he is unbaptized, there are several options that may be possible. He could pursue a decree of nullity if there are grounds to challenge the validity of the marriage. As an unbaptized person the Pauline or Petrine Privilege may also be avenues for him to explore depending upon the baptismal status of his first wife.

He needs to meet with the pastor, lay out all the facts of his marital situation, and he will receive guidance on how to proceed.
 
If you want to marry in the Catholic Church, you need to see a priest as soon as possible about his previous marriage situation. A priest will be in the best position to advise you and start any paperwork, if an annulment is needed.
 
He will have to be declared free to marry before you can proceed with any sort of marriage plans (I urge caution and prudence in giving your heart to someone until you know they are free to marry).

Because he is unbaptized, there are several options that may be possible. He could pursue a decree of nullity if there are grounds to challenge the validity of the marriage. As an unbaptized person the Pauline or Petrine Privilege may also be avenues for him to explore depending upon the baptismal status of his first wife.

He needs to meet with the pastor, lay out all the facts of his marital situation, and he will receive guidance on how to proceed.
I Think that the Pauline privilege lies closest at hand, when i myself were on my way of entering the Church and i had previous marriage as unbaptized, it was the solution the official at my diocese chosed.
The question of annulment wasnt even raised since there was no need for it.

Therefore i guess it is very likely that any tribunal will take that option, however, this is only speculation and the advice of those in authority to take any such decision must be sought.
 
Not quite true, if the Pauline privilege is applied, it only needs the consent of the Bishop and that doesnt have to take 6 months.
this was the case in my first marriage my wife was not baptised and she left the marriage. and I still had to get an annulement.

My current wife was married before and we did go that route. Her previous husband had not been baptised. We got a statement from his former pastor confirming he hadn’t been baptised, it was sent to Rome and took about 8 months.

Annulements are more common in the U.S… since the church wants proof. And it is difficult to prove someone has never been Baptised.

Anyway that’s my experience. but your saying since he was never baptised. Interesting
 
this was the case in my first marriage my wife was not baptised and she left the marriage. and I still had to get an annulement.

My current wife was married before and we did go that route. Her previous husband had not been baptised. We got a statement from his former pastor confirming he hadn’t been baptised, it was sent to Rome and took about 8 months.

Annulements are more common in the U.S… since the church wants proof. And it is difficult to prove someone has never been Baptised.

Anyway that’s my experience. but your saying since he was never baptised. Interesting
Well your case seems to be a little bit different than mine since i was not baptized and was previously married to a muslim woman, a marriage that ended long before i entered the Church.
When i was about to convert i was going to marry a catholic woman but that marriage never took Place, anyhow they decided to give me the Pauline privilege and the Canon law expert said that all he needed was the signature of the Bishop which would not be a problem and they sent this consent to my priest and that was all, a very easy procedure that was done after just one meeting with this Canon lawyer at the diocese official.
 
this was the case in my first marriage my wife was not baptised and she left the marriage. and I still had to get an annulement.

My current wife was married before and we did go that route. Her previous husband had not been baptised. We got a statement from his former pastor confirming he hadn’t been baptised, it was sent to Rome and took about 8 months.

Annulements are more common in the U.S… since the church wants proof. And it is difficult to prove someone has never been Baptised.

Anyway that’s my experience. but your saying since he was never baptised. Interesting
If any of you was baptised at the time of marriage the Pauline privilege does not apply.

In the Catholic Church and in some Protestant denominations (although most Protestants allow divorce in all serious circumstances), this is interpreted as allowing the dissolution of a marriage between two non-baptized persons in the case that one (but not both) of the partners seeks baptism and converts to Christianity and the other partner leaves the marriage. According to the Catholic Church’s canon law, the Pauline Privilege does not apply when either of the partners was a Christian at the time of marriage. It differs from annulment because it dissolves a valid actual marriage whereas an annulment declares that a marriage was invalid from the beginning.
(Source Wiki)
 
I Think that the Pauline privilege lies closest at hand, when i myself were on my way of entering the Church and i had previous marriage as unbaptized, it was the solution the official at my diocese chosed.
The question of annulment wasnt even raised since there was no need for it.

Therefore i guess it is very likely that any tribunal will take that option, however, this is only speculation and the advice of those in authority to take any such decision must be sought.
We cannot say. The Pauline Privilege can be invoked when both parties are unbaptized. We do not know the baptismal status of the first wife.

We can only say that there are several different possibilities and they will have to go talk to their pastor to complete a detailed interview.
 
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