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Not sure if my marriage is true. Married under the influence of marijuana. Need clarity. I quit like I intended. Neverwantred to really start. Husband won’t quit and does not want kids yet. Does not want natural sex. Feeling a tremendous pull to leave. I knew it was wrong I thought I could change him but fell to my oldways which inow abhor and i abhor my husb for his carelessness for his faith and his high school pothead friends.
 
Gracious and merciful Father, please come to their assistance.

Our Father, who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.
Thy kingdom come, thy will be done, on Earth as it is in Heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread,
and forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.
Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.
Amen.

Glory Be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit.
As it was in the beginning, is now, and ever shall be, world without end.
Amen.
 
needthechurch said:
Not sure if my marriage is true. Married under the influence of marijuana. Need clarity. I quit like I intended. Neverwantred to really start. Husband won’t quit and does not want kids yet. Does not want natural sex. Feeling a tremendous pull to leave. I knew it was wrong I thought I could change him but fell to my oldways which inow abhor and i abhor my husb for his carelessness for his faith and his high school pothead friends.
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My Dearest Needs the Church. I feel you need to talk to your priest. From what I understand w annulments, vows cannot be taken under the effect of illegal drugs. His requesting unnatural sex is a serious situation. I am glad there are no children.
My Prayer: dear God, lead her in wisdom and grace on a path that will lead to truth and light.
we are not to be slaves to sin but to the Light of Love that comes when two people meet w Christ in their heart. Let her journey begin. It may open doors for her husband to be free in Christ, also. One step into God’s love, opens so many doors

Ask one of our apologists. It is exciting starting things anew.

in Christs love,
tweedlealice.
 
Saint Michael, the archangel, defend us in battle, be our defense against the wickedness and snares of the devil, may God rebuke him, we humbly pray. And do you, O’ Prince of the Heavenly host, by the power of God thrust into Hell Satan and all the other evil spirits who prowl about the world for the ruin of souls.

Amen.

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Our Father who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.

Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread.

And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.

And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

Amen.

†

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.

Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.

†
 
Dear friend, I will pray for the direction you need to explore the potential that remains in your marriage. Please seek counsel with faithful friends who will seek means to discuss this situation. Know that God is with you always, so trust in Him.
 
**Sacred Heart of Jesus,
we know that there is but one thing impossible to You:
to be without pity for those who are in suffering or distress.
Look down on us,
we beg of You
and grant us the grace which we humbly and earnestly implore,
through the Immaculate Heart of Your most sorrowful Mother
to whom You confided us as her children,
and whose prayers are all powerful with You.

Amen.**

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Prayer to St. Rita, Patroness of Troubled Marriages

O powerful St. Rita,
rightly called Saint of the Impossible,
I come to you with confidence in my great need.
You know well my trials,
for you yourself were many times burdened in this life.
Come to my help,
speak for me,
pray with me,
intercede on my behalf before the Father.
I know that God has a most generous heart
and that he is a most loving Father.
Join your prayers to mine
and obtain for me the grace I desire:
Please hear our prayers for this marriage…
You who were so very pleasing to God on earth
and are so much so now in heaven,
I promise to use this favor, when granted,
to better my life,
to proclaim God’s mercy,
and to make you more widely known and loved.

Amen.
 
I’m speechleww at all of the prayers, thank you all. Already things are surprising me and I’m having a blessed Sunday. So thankful. Have a Blessed day in our Lord Jesus Christ.
 
Thank you I hope for Gods answer soon. Should be any minute now…
 
Holy Michael the Archangel defend us in the day of battle.
Be our safeguard against the wickedness and snares of the devil.
May God rebuke him, we humbly pray,
and do Thou, O Prince of the Heavenly Host,
by the Power of God,
thrust down to hell satan and all the wicked spirits,
who wander through the world for the ruin of souls.
Amen.

Remember, O most loving Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession and was left forsaken. Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you I come, before you I stand, a sorrowful sinner. Despise not my words, O Mother of the Word, but in your mercy, hear and answer me.
Amen
 
Eternal Father, I offer you the Body , Blood , Soul and Divinity of our Savior Lord Jesus Christ. In atonement of our sins and those of the whole world Amen…

For the sake of His sorrowful passion, Have mercy on us Lord.
 
I remember the wedding day more clearly now. I was still in my right mind and didn’t smoke pot right before the civil ceremony at 10:30am on Sunday July 3 2011. Same with my husband. We did a little afterwards. We might have had a little before 7 or 8 am. I think it would have worn off…but over the four years, it got pretty bad. But back then we were more careful especcially when going somewhere important. Still important to be clean completely…it takes three months for it to completely exit the system, but only has the high effect for about three hours. My memory fails me though…I really don’t know but I know I am getting help by going to N.A. I quit on my own on Christmas but had about four relapses since then, mainly because of my husband, his friends, and my anxiety with no support. But I remembered my love for my husband. My heart breaks with thoughts of leaving him. I feel likei would be abandoning a puppy in the rain.
 
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I remember the wedding day more clearly now. I was still in my right mind and didn’t smoke pot right before the civil ceremony at 10:30am on Sunday July 3 2011. Same with my husband. We did a little afterwards. We might have had a little before 7 or 8 am. I think it would have worn off…but over the four years, it got pretty bad. But back then we were more careful especcially when going somewhere important. Still important to be clean completely…it takes three months for it to completely exit the system, but only has the high effect for about three hours. My memory fails me though…I really don’t know but I know I am getting help by going to N.A. I quit on my own on Christmas but had about four relapses since then, mainly because of my husband, his friends, and my anxiety with no support. But I remembered my love for my husband. My heart breaks with thoughts of leaving him. I feel likei would be abandoning a puppy in the rain./QUOTE

What happens when you leave a puppy? He follows you. The difference here if you are turning your life over to Jesus, He may resist but God’s grace can still pull him in.
Seek ye first the kingdom of God and everything else shall be added unto you.
BELIEVE.

in Christs name
tweedlealice:)
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Agreeing with those who said talk to your priest. Seek counsel. Seek advice. Seek guidance.

Now I’ll pray for you as I send this… 🙂
 
**O My Jesus, forgive us our sins, save us from the fires of Hell and lead all souls to Heaven, especially those who are in most need of Thy mercy.
Amen.

O My Jesus, forgive us our sins, save us from the fires of Hell and lead all souls to Heaven, especially those who are in most need of Thy mercy.
Amen.**

O My Jesus, forgive us our sins, save us from the fires of Hell and lead all souls to Heaven, especially those who are in most need of Thy mercy.
Amen.

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