Married folks question

[Gearoidin]

Black Jaque:

Ok I’ll let ya know. Here are some of my code phrases I use to tell my wife that I’m in the mood:

“Pssst! Are you awake?”

“Hi Honey! I’m home!”

“Boy I’m hungry. What’s for supper?”

“Wow! It’s Monday!”

“You look marvelous!”

“Good morning!”

“Good night.”

“Wow! It’s Tuesday!”

“Well, the neighbor’s dog just chewed 1/2 my leg off. Some idjit ran me off the road and into the ditch. An irate client grabbed my tie, pulled me over the desk and pounded knobs in my head. How was your day?”

“Let’s go out for pizza.”

“Wow! It’s Wednesday!”

“How are you doing?”

“The babysitter’s coming at 6:00, you’ve got an hour and a half to get ready, we’re going out to dinner, then take in a play”

When a gorgeous babe walks by I say, “Hey toots!” Then when she turns around to slap me I say, “Not you! Her!” and I point to my wife.

“I feel kinda bummed today”

“Wow! It’s Thursday!”

“I’m beat! Let’s go to bed early.”

“I feel pretty spunky. Let’s stay up all night.”

“Thank God it’s Friday!”

“Oh your sister called, she’ll call again at 7”

“I’m going hunting, I’ll be home sometime after dark.”

“I love Saturdays”

“Letsee, I gotta mow the lawn, change oil in the cars, fix the window, take out the garbage, and there was something else I had to do . . .”

“Put another log on the fire, fix me up some bacon and some beans…”

“Would you like another glass of wine?”

“SUNDAY!!!”

I love these!

Gearoidin

 

[Peace-bwu]

My husband and I have a great sense of humor and use all kinds of fun and or romantic phrases.

Sometimes one of us will sing some kind of stupid song that we think is funny “I wanna get freeky with you…” or another corny tasteless song like the Rod steward “If you want my body and you think I’m sexy darlin’ just let me know” He is the stereotypical white boy dancer so all he has to do is try to dance and it cracks me up and there is nothing more endearing to me and he knows it.
I love my husband so much and we have been through so much together, that we are totally comfortable with one another and discussing what we want etc. and he lets me know that he still finds me attractive and tells me that I am the only woman he every wants. I have been so many different shapes and sizes over the past ten years, with three pregnancies that I know he will always love me and find me attractive no matter what because we have a deep spiritual connection and a great friendship but also physical attraction.

Other times we just nonverbally let each other know, sometimes no words are necessary in the middle of the night.

Sex is a wonderful and spiritual gift in marriage. We take our vows very seriously and making love can be the most natural, fun and spiritually powerful gift in marriage if we let it be.

One thing to always remember, and I always like to point out in these discussions, is that pornography is extremely destructive to a healthy, loving, fun, self giving and God centered marriage. It is so common and prevalant that it enters many the Christian marriage, but it is nothing but a path to destruction. Anyone who lets pornography linger in the back corners of their closet should try to take it completey out of their lives. So many people dont’ realize how destructive it is to sexual expression and marriage in general.

 

[Peace-bwu]

Just a warning guys, I can’t tell you how many women have complained to me that they wish their husband would give them backrubs with no strings attached. Backrubs are great foreplay, but sometimes they are also just a great way to show you care.

 

[ConcernCatholic]

Peace-bwu:

Just a warning guys, I can’t tell you how many women have complained to me that they wish their husband would give them backrubs with no strings attached. Backrubs are great foreplay, but sometimes they are also just a great way to show you care.

Don’t forget to add foot rubs to this. Many a good time has been preceded by a nice foot rub.

We have a family bed so our key phrase of late has been, “Shall we adjourn tonight?” (Our spare bedroom is our love nest…hehehehe…) Or there is always, “I’ve gotta go get such and such, you want to join me.” If it is during the day, one of us will simply make reference to hoping the kids go to bed early. We can be very silly…“Do I need to take you out to the woodshed?” We can pretty much turn anything into a signal of interest. The twinkle in the eye pretty much says it all. The words are just to confirm what the other already knows

 

[Celia]

Peace-bwu:

Just a warning guys, I can’t tell you how many women have complained to me that they wish their husband would give them backrubs with no strings attached. Backrubs are great foreplay, but sometimes they are also just a great way to show you care.

Preach it, sista! :bowdown:

 

[Celia]

arieh0310:

I just give my wife a back rub, never have to ask. Of course if that doesn’t work I just say “the pope says we have to have 10,000 kids, I’ll turn you in if we don’t get busy”

My DH will usually use a corny, typical line, like, “Let’s do it!” because he knows it’ll make me laugh and I think it’s cute.

Sometimes, we don’t really need to say anything, we just “know”.

 

[Rob_s_Wife]

Peace-bwu:

Just a warning guys, I can’t tell you how many women have complained to me that they wish their husband would give them backrubs with no strings attached. Backrubs are great foreplay, but sometimes they are also just a great way to show you care.

:yup: ** Touching is, of course, a great thing - but be very sure that sex isn’t the only reason you do it. Otherwise, you may find yourself with a wife who won’t even want to cuddle up to you at night when she’s not in the mood!**