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hi,I am new to these forums and so I apologize if I am not posting this in the correct place: I’m a Catholic woman, engaged to be married to a Hindu. His family does not have a problem with him marrying into a Christian family; however, we have recently brought up the topic of children and he is disappointed to know that his children will be unable to know and share in his beliefs. And so he brought up this question: Can one child be raised Catholic and the other Hindu? This makes me uneasy and I know we have a lot to think about, but first I want to know the Church’s stance on this. Basically what I am asking is, are there any compromises that can be made?
i come from a Hindu family, and am currently in the process of RCIA. a lot of Hindus aren’t really religious, but consider a lot of Indian culture as part of religion. maybe you could try to compromise that you would follow a lot of Indian culture and traditions, such as diwali and holi (they do have some Hindu religion background, however you can celebrate it just as a fun festival, like people celebrate Halloween) and maybe teach your kids (if its a girl) Indian classical dancing, or maybe also teach them to speak Hindi etc. Let him know you’re open to the cultural aspect, just not religious. also, if he’s south indian, you can show him a syro-malabar church if you have one in your area. it’s catholic, but with a lot of Indian culture and traditions. Hope all works well