**Matthew 1:25a
āā¦but he had no union with her until she gave birth to a son.ā (NIV) **
As pointed many times on this thread, this statement doesnāt prove either case.
John 21:22 "ā¦if I want him to remain until I returnā¦"
Since, due to this statement, a rumor was started that John would not die, clearly, the word āuntilā cannot be used to demonstrate that Mary did have a sexual relationship after Jesus was born. The problem is for non-catholics to use this verse as proof that Mary had other children. I would say that it is bad exegesis on the part of non-catholic for arguing about this verse.
*]Matthew 12:46-47,Matthew 13:55 Mark 3:31-32, Mark 6:3, Luke 8:19-20 John 2:12,
This is the strongest argument at hand. From these verses, it clearly makes it possible to imply that Mary did indeed have other children.
Therefore, the argument against these verses is a bit complex.
Catholic doctrines, as you know, does not come from āscriptures onlyā, and I believe that it is important that we shouldnāt limit ourselves to scriptures only in trying to understand itās meaning. For example, Jesus spoke of the place called āAbrahamās bosomā. If we let scriptures interpret scriptures, then, we wonāt get far in understanding this doctrine. In such a case, we need extrabiblical jewish litterature to help us along.
Now, as for the brotherās of Jesus; early christian documents claim that they were
not the children of Mary (Jesusā mother). There is also not one single document (scriptures included) which identifies the brothers of Jesus as being sons of Mary (Jesusā mother). Early christian documents claim that Simeon, son of Clopas,
who, in turn was the brother of Joseph, became the bishop of Jerusalem after James, the Lordās brother, died.
In Johnās gosple, it reads; at the foot of the cross, there, standing, was the
sister of Mary,called Mary, wife of Clopas. If Clopas was the brother of Joseph, then, his wife (Mary) would have been the sister-in-law of Jesusā mother, being why the scriptures would call her the sister of Mary (the Lordās mother).
This Mary is also believed to be the mother of James and Joseph. Here, we have a woman who has at least three children, James, Joseph and Simon, having the exact same name as the brothers of Jesus, who are clearly identified as being his cousins. What would be the odds of Jesus having brothers and cousins bearing the same names?
A first century christian document, by the name of the
Gosple of the Hebrews, which, according to some, was the original gosple of Matthew, written in Hebrew, Identifies, James, the Lordās brother as being present at the last supper, therefore, identifying him as being among the twelve apostles.
According to Hegesippus (see Eusebius, l.c.), James was a cousin, and his father an uncle, of Jesus
James the son of Alpheus (one of the twelve) is said to having been martyred in the same manner than James, the righteous (Lordās brother)
Hippolytus identifies that James was stoned to death in Jerusalem:
**And James the son of Alphaeus, when preaching in Jerusalem, was stoned to death by the Jews, and was buried there beside the temple. **
ā¦the same is said for the Lordās brother.
So they went up and threw down the righteous one. Then they said to eachother, āLet us stone James the Just,ā and they began to stone him, since the fall had not killed him. But he turned and knelt down, saying, āI implore you, O Lord, God and Father, forgive them: they do not know what they are doing.ā While they were pelting him with stones, one of the priests amongthe sons of the Rechabites, to whom the prophet Jeremiah bore witness, cried out, āStop! What are you doing? The righteous one is praying for you.ā Thenone of them, a laundryman, took the club that he used to beat out clothes and hit the Just on the head. Such was his martyrdom. They buried him on the spot by the temple, and his gravestone is still there by the temple. He became a true witness to both Jews and Gentiles that Jesus is the Christā (Eusebius
St Paul wrote that, when he went to Jerusalem, the only apostle he saw besides Peter, was James, the Lordās brother. While it is true that others were also called by the name of apostle, the naming of Peter makes it somewhat more probable that the twelve are those whoām he was refering to especially for the fact that when St Paul arrived in Jerusalem, he was greeted by Barnabas, who is also called an apostle.
While the upper does not prove the perpetual virginity of Mary, itās argument is certainly more in favor than against it, it seems.
Andre