God, as I said, does not predestine men to hell. This is the impious Calvinist view, where they even say that God tells the devil to tempt us so that we may fall and where they say that if we sin, it is because God puposely made us sin.
god: Hmm, so that I may show my justice, I’m going to force this lad here to sin on purpose.
They depict God as a tyrant… nuff said.
The Thomistic view isn’t like this of course. It holds that if a soul is predestined or goes to heaven, it is because God loved him more than the soul who went to hell because He actually willed to save the predestined soul. Of course, it is erronous and wrong to say this:
‘What’s the use of becoming a saint? If I am predestined, I will go to heaven no matter what sins I do.’
We can’t say that, because predestined souls go to heaven because of the things they do. God and Mary help these souls lead a saintly life on earth so that they may obtain merit in heaven and be happy in it. They give them efficacious grace which disposes their wills to do good and so brings about the good works they perform. It is free will cooperating with God and Mary’s will.
Those who go to hell though go to hell not because God didn’t want them to go to heaven or that He excluded them from it but He simply permitted/allowed/let them follow their own bad inclinations and in the process did not give them efficacious grace to convert or repent. (And here note that I’m referring to God. Mary’s love is another story which is part of this) However, while God does not give efficacious grace to all, He gives to
everyone sufficient grace which gives them the power to do good but doesn’t dispose their will to do good. Sufficient grace is like the example of the family outing to the grand canyon which I gave.
Here is another example: a father took his two children to the park where they saw a huge dog. He tells them to not go near it or it may harm them and lets them off to play. However, he tells one of them to stay with him and away from the dog and the child agrees; he doesn’t tell the other one to stay with him, the boy disobeys his father’s orders and pleadings to stay away from the dog, the dog bite the child’s head off and the child dies

. OK, maybe he didn’t bite his head off but you know what I mean

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This is the mystery though: while sufficient grace doesn’t dispose our will to do good, it is still
sufficient and enough to bring us to heaven.