So they made Mary bigger than she was ( so fundamentalists ie bigger than she was as seen in the bible … Right ?) to help the Romans adjust to christianity and convert and then afterwards build on the truth of Mary ? Right ?
So where shall I say it did start from ?
NO.
No, hon, they did NOT make Mary ‘bigger than she was,’
NO, that was NOT to ‘help the Romans adjust’.
No, they are simply starting from a false premise and a logical fallacy.
What STARTED was that Mary and Jesus were born.
For some 1500 years, Christianity spread. NOT because Christians ‘paganized’ things or ‘twisted the truth’ or ‘built things up’.
Christians told the truth.
Then about 500 year ago other Christians became confused. Were misled, misguided, and flat out lied to.
The descendants of THOSE Christians are the ones who are trying to argue these lies, often because they’ve been told them by people they trust.
But even if they were told these lies by their saintly old grandmother, you simply can’t ignore the truth yourself and assume, "little old ladies don’t lie’. You don’t have to be rude about it, “Your grandma lied dude”. . .You can be truthful and say, "I don’t know where you got that story, but it’s not accurate. Early Christians never ‘built up’ Mary. In fact, I can point you to a place (Catholic Answers) where you can read some of the writings of early Christians of those times and you’ll see that they were treating Mary the same way Catholics do now. There was NEVER a time that Mary was ‘ignored’ and then ‘built up’ into something ‘bigger than she really is’.
Bottom line: THEY made the argument, THEY need to supply PROOF and proof is not “My grandma told me, or my pastor told me, or the website told me X”.
Do NOT proceed from the assumption that these people are RIGHT and try to find a ‘reason’ that the Catholics ‘acted as they did’.
Instead, point out the TRUTH of the Catholic teaching (please, just check out the library right here on this site if you aren’t sure yourself, it’s here), that the teaching contradicts THEIR assertions, and ask them to support THEIR claim.
Put the ball in THEIR COURT WHERE IT BELONGS.