I just happened to pick up a book by Hans Urs Von Balthasar and Joseph Cardinal Ratzinger entitled Mary The Church at the Source.
I am not your super zealous Marian Catholic like many are.
I am so skeptical of the alleged appartitions (even the so-called “approved” ones) of Jesus and Mary.
That Mother Kowalska and all that stuff about the Divine Mercy. Real apparitions or theophanies are very rare in the Bible. I find it so hard to buy into the idea of an apparition where this nun is supposedly told to have people meditate on this image of Jesus.
I find people promoting “private” revelations into the realm of “public” revelation, which the Church says ended with the death of the apostles.
In this book, which I have just started into, UHVB makes a very insightful observation about Mary in the introduction:
“Mary’s YES to the angel recapitulated (while raising to a new level) the whole Abrahamic faith of the OT, together with the hope that it entails. It thereby signaled the incorporation of the OT into the New, of Judaism into the Church…‘He has helped his servant Israel, in remembrance of his mercy’ sings Mary in the Magnificat, thereby opening great vistas of hope that God will accomplish the work of the world’s salvation through Israel-Church. [Mary] is the indivisible unity of God’s entire community of salvation: Israel-Mary-Church. It is within this overarching framework that we must resituate every esteem for, and veneration of, the Virgin who conceives of the Spirit.”
HUVB, intro, Ignatius Press, 1997.
Obviously these authors concur with the idea in the OP about Mary’s place in bridging, rather than spoiling, the relationship between Christians.