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Peter_J
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Gabriel did not explicitly ask her for permission, but I think that the Bible and Church teaching both leave open the possibility that Mary had a choice.Ruthie sorry to jump in here but I see this claim made by Catholics all the time and it makes no sense at all. No disrespect but Mary did not have the option of saying no. She was told she would conceive and have a child. The Angel did not ask her for permission.
Look at it this way: Gabriel also told Zechariah that Elizabeth would conceive … and yet the actual conception was nevertheless contingent on Zechariah and Elizabeth 's future actions. So, in some sense they had a choice. Well then, why not Mary as well?
I think the better question to ask is, Why do we even bother speculating about whether Mary “had a choice” or not? (I can’t really imagine early Christians debating that issue, can you?) Hmm … maybe it’s a kind of feminist / antifeminst thing. I.e. the Bible says Mary was told she would have a child … and then feminism immediately replies “But she didn’t have to have a child. She had a child because she wanted to.” and then anti-feminism says “No, the fact that she wanted to have a child is irrelevant. She was told that she would have a child – she never decided to have a child.” In my personal opinion, both types of speculation are extremely silly.