Mary was just a vessel

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  • This doens’t mean I agree with your belief that those after the 1st century had the same authority.
In fact, you could not accept such authority. If you did, you would have to become Catholic!

But in fact, whenever you defer to Scripture, you honor that authority, because without it, you would not have a Bible. 😃

That same authority that gave you the Bible gave Mary, the Mother of God, the title “Theotokos”.
 
In fact, you could not accept such authority. If you did, you would have to become Catholic!

But in fact, whenever you defer to Scripture, you honor that authority, because without it, you would not have a Bible. 😃

That same authority that gave you the Bible gave Mary, the Mother of God, the title “Theotokos”.
I commend you you stick to your script.
 
There is nothing inherintly sinful about sex. God created sex, and created human beings to enjoy and reproduce with sex.

the issue about reproduction is probably off topic, as is having sex with husbands.

Persons who make a vow of virgninity break their vow if they go back on it after the fact. It is considered a sacrilege to take a sacred vessel (one that has been consecrated to sacred service) and return it to regular daily use. This is why the Jews were so scandalized when invaders would take the sacred vessels from the Temple, and use them for wild drinking parties. It is an insult to the Sacred Service to which they are dedicated. There is nothing inherintly wrong with drinking wine out of a goblet, either. To use a consecrated goblet is an insult.
Where is it recorded that Mary took a vow of virginity? Where is it is recorded that God asked it of her.
 
Where is it recorded that Mary took a vow of virginity? Where is it is recorded that God asked it of her.
actually it is recorded. and please someone correct me if i am wrong. im using the douay rheims translation for this. ok dokimas, look at luke 1:34 and Mary said to the angel “how can this be done, because i know NOT man?” the way the phrase is written is important, because it in it she apparently is refering to a vow, previously made. i believe guanophore can explain this better if he wishes. but i think the Blessed Mother, had already taken oaths to life long virginity.🙂
 
This is not what happened. You are making a mistake. This belongs on another thread. You are confused.
Well thats what DoKiams does you never know what thread he is on , one day its eating meat on Firday and the Eucharist the next, that why it is so hard to keep up with. I have been trying to understant him for three days and still do not know what he is talking about
 
Where is it recorded that Mary took a vow of virginity? Where is it is recorded that God asked it of her.
I am not aware that any of the persons in history taking such vows have any record of “God asking it of” them. Paul was a celibate, and though the NT is repleat with his writngs, he never mentions “God asking”. Are you suggesting that one might only take such a vow if God “asked” them to do so?

Mary was under the Mosaic Law, and Joseph was engaged to her while accepting her perpetual vow. he was a just and law abiding man, so he honored the commandments found in the book of numbers about vows of celibacy.

How do we know she had such a vow? In addition to what was handed down to us from the Apostles, we have her converstation with the angel. No young woman about to be married and be fruitful would ask about the “facts of life” from an angel. Mary had no intention of physically consummating her marriage, and that is why she was confused about how she was going to get pregnant.
 
Mary had no intention of physically consummating her marriage, and that is why she was confused about how she was going to get pregnant.
You know what I’ve always found to be strange? Such a disposition is grounds for an annulment in the RCC. So in the eyes of the church, one could conclude that Mary and Joseph were never truly married if she never intended to consummate the marriage.
 
You know what I’ve always found to be strange? Such a disposition is grounds for an annulment in the RCC. So in the eyes of the church, one could conclude that Mary and Joseph were never truly married if she never intended to consummate the marriage.
They were under the Law of Moses. And if Mary made a vow of celibacy for the sake of the Kingdom, and Joseph agreed to it, then they were both bound to it under the Law of Moses (Num. 30:3-8). God bless.
 
You know what I’ve always found to be strange? Such a disposition is grounds for an annulment in the RCC. So in the eyes of the church, one could conclude that Mary and Joseph were never truly married if she never intended to consummate the marriage.
Yes, our culture is quite different. In ancient Hebrew culture, as we see in Arab cultures today, a woman was considered property,and could not be unaccompanied. She was always in the care of her father, brother, or other male relative. The only women who were not so guarded were prostitutes.

Women who wished to take a vow of celibacy had to have the permission of their guardian.

Num 30:3 "If a woman vows a vow to the LORD and binds herself by a pledge, while within her father’s house in her youth,
Num 30:4 and her father hears of her vow and of her pledge by which she has bound herself and says nothing to her, then all her vows shall stand, and every pledge by which she has bound herself shall stand.
Num 30:5 But if her father opposes her on the day that he hears of it, no vow of hers, no pledge by which she has bound herself shall stand. And the LORD will forgive her, because her father opposed her.
Num 30:6 “If she marries a husband, while under her vows or any thoughtless utterance of her lips by which she has bound herself,
Num 30:7 and her husband hears of it and says nothing to her on the day that he hears, then her vows shall stand, and her pledges by which she has bound herself shall stand.
Num 30:8 But if, on the day that her husband comes to hear of it, he opposes her, then he makes void her vow that was on her, and the thoughtless utterance of her lips by which she bound herself. And the LORD will forgive her.
Num 30:9 (But any vow of a widow or of a divorced woman, anything by which she has bound herself, shall stand against her.)
Num 30:10 And if she vowed in her husband’s house or bound herself by a pledge with an oath,
Num 30:11 and her husband heard of it and said nothing to her and did not oppose her, then all her vows shall stand, and every pledge by which she bound herself shall stand.
Num 30:12 But if her husband makes them null and void on the day that he hears them, then whatever proceeds out of her lips concerning her vows or concerning her pledge of herself shall not stand. Her husband has made them void, and the LORD will forgive her.
Num 30:13 Any vow and any binding oath to afflict herself, her husband may establish, or her husband may make void.
Num 30:14 But if her husband says nothing to her from day to day, then he establishes all her vows or all her pledges that are upon her. He has established them, because he said nothing to her on the day that he heard of them.
Num 30:15 But if he makes them null and void after he has heard of them, then he shall bear her iniquity.”
Num 30:16 These are the statutes that the LORD commanded Moses about a man and his wife and about a father and his daughter while she is in her youth within her father’s house.
 
They were under the Law of Moses. And if Mary made a vow of celibacy for the sake of the Kingdom, and Joseph agreed to it, then they were both bound to it under the Law of Moses (Num. 30:3-8). God bless.
Yes but in the current Roman Catholic Church teaching such a vow of celibacy is inconsistent with the mutual giving of oneself to spouses. I remember the priest saying that if we didn’t intend to have children our marriage would be invalid. I’m simply pointing out that if its applies to my wife and I why not Mary and Joseph?
 
Yes but in the current Roman Catholic Church teaching such a vow of celibacy is inconsistent with the mutual giving of oneself to spouses. I remember the priest saying that if we didn’t intend to have children our marriage would be invalid. I’m simply pointing out that if its applies to my wife and I why not Mary and Joseph?
Because God knows the end from the beginning. 😉
 
Because God knows the end from the beginning. 😉
Okay but still, Mary and Joseph’s marriage would still be considered invalid because it lacked proper intention according to the teaching of Rome, would it not?
 
Okay but still, Mary and Joseph’s marriage would still be considered invalid because it lacked proper intention according to the teaching of Rome, would it not?
Under the Law of Christ, yes. But God wanted the mother of His Son to be a pure Virgin, who had dedicated her whole life to serving His Kingdom. But God could not have His Son growing up in a fatherless home, so He put this provision in the Law of Moses so that Joseph and Mary could have a celibate “marriage”. But I agree with St. Jerome, who did not believe that Joseph and Mary actually ever got married, but remained legally betrothed.
 
Yes but in the current Roman Catholic Church teaching such a vow of celibacy is inconsistent with the mutual giving of oneself to spouses. I remember the priest saying that if we didn’t intend to have children our marriage would be invalid. I’m simply pointing out that if its applies to my wife and I why not Mary and Joseph?
They weren’t Roman Catholic?

They were under the Mosaic Covenant. Catholics are not. 😃
Okay but still, Mary and Joseph’s marriage would still be considered invalid because it lacked proper intention according to the teaching of Rome, would it not?
If a man or a woman today took vows to be a monk or a nun, then decided to enter into a marriage (I can’t imagine why this might happen) and they both agreed to remain celibate, then yes, it would not be considered a valid marriage. The lifestyle of celibacy by definition, precludes the marital embrace.

In those days, however, if a man took a virgin into his home, even if just to be her guardian, and did not marry her, it would be considered a scandal. Jesus needed a legal father, and God chose Joseph. He agreed to adopt Jesus, and raise Him as his own son.
 
actually it is recorded. and please someone correct me if i am wrong. im using the douay rheims translation for this. ok dokimas, look at luke 1:34 and Mary said to the angel “how can this be done, because i know NOT man?” the way the phrase is written is important, because it in it she apparently is refering to a vow, previously made. i believe guanophore can explain this better if he wishes. but i think the Blessed Mother, had already taken oaths to life long virginity.🙂

Mary was espoused to Joseph and wan’t going to give up her virginity? Why get married then? Why would Joseph want to marry her?​

I’m sure, as all Jewish girls were suppose to do, she had vowed to be a virgin til married. Boy do I wish all kids would do the same now adays.
 
Those verses in Numbers are interesting. I don’t remember thinking about them before (I’ve read them but never thought on them). I did see something interesting there …

Num 30:8 But if, on the day that her husband comes to hear of it, he opposes her, then he makes void her vow that was on her, and the **thoughtless utterance ** of her lips by which she bound herself. And the LORD will forgive her.​

The Holy Spirit seemed to comment on a young woman’s vow by saying it is thoughtless.​

Let’s look at the verse in the NT that you think means Mary had made such a vow.

Luke 1:34 Then Mary said to the angel, “How can this be, since I do not know a man?”

The verb ‘do know’ is in the present active indicitive. This indicates, as I understand, that to that moment in her life she is a virgin. It does not indicate anything about the future. According to the law, if she was not a virgin and her husband to be found out, she was to pay a heavy price, was she not?​

 
Those verses in Numbers are interesting. I don’t remember thinking about them before (I’ve read them but never thought on them). I did see something interesting there …

Num 30:8 But if, on the day that her husband comes to hear of it, he opposes her, then he makes void her vow that was on her, and the **thoughtless utterance ** of her lips by which she bound herself. And the LORD will forgive her.​

The Holy Spirit seemed to comment on a young woman’s vow by saying it is thoughtless.
No, that is only if the husband opposes it, which means that God had not called her to celibacy. So it was a “thoughtless utterance”.
Let’s look at the verse in the NT that you think means Mary had made such a vow.
Luke 1:34 Then Mary said to the angel, “How can this be, since I do not know a man?”
The verb ‘do know’ is in the present active indicitive. This indicates, as I understand, that to that moment in her life she is a virgin. It does not indicate anything about the future.
Well, first of all, YLT has the literal word for word: “seeing a husband I do not know.” That is, without the euphemism, “a husband I do not have sexual relations with” - a platonic husband, under the Law of Moses. It makes no sense to think otherwise. There was no reason for Mary to even be confused about it if they were planning on a typical marriage, since the angel said, “You will be with child” - future tense. So Mary was referring to the future when she said, “seeing a husband I do not know.” God bless.
 
Well, first of all, YLT has the literal word for word: “seeing a husband I do not know.” That is, without the euphemism, “a husband I do not have sexual relations with” - a platonic husband, under the Law of Moses. It makes no sense to think otherwise. There was no reason for Mary to even be confused about it if they were planning on a typical marriage, since the angel said, “You will be with child” - future tense. So Mary was referring to the future when she said, “seeing a husband I do not know.” God bless.
You do have to read a lot into this to get your understanding. Have you really looked into a Jewish betrothal?
 
You do have to read a lot into this to get your understanding. Have you really looked into a Jewish betrothal?
actually i have. from the time of moses, betrothel has taken on several forms. it used to be that a young man would take a young woman. give her a promisary token. perhaps a piece of jewelry of some kind, then take her to his tent and sleep with her. they were then betrothed. if you look at the law of moses such things were not forbidden in the prohibited sexual practices. it was later that the practice was discontinued. after the authority God had set up on earth declared it to be wrong. also it was the authority God set up, at the time. the jewish priest who discontinued poligamy. again nothing wrong with it in scriptures. ( sola scriptura friends. lol!) but the authority he set up at the time declared it to be discontinued. so betrothal in jewish custom, has changed over the millenia. and there is also secular studies by authors such as christopher knight and michael baigent who contend Mary had taken vows to remain a virgin. also martin luther, john calvin ,and i believe zwinglie never doubted her lifelong virginity. worth checking out.
 
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