There is much biblical evidence that Mary remained ever a virgin after the birth of Jesus, and that by Joseph’s willing consent.
I just woke up from a nap, so if I’m not as thorough as I could be, please forgive me.
We know Mary and Joseph had no other children at least until the return from Egypt. Jesus would have been about 3 or 4 years old at this time.
Mary the wife of Cleophas is called the virgin Mary’s “sister” in the gospel of John’s crucifixion scene, so we know that the scripture writers used “brother” and “sister” at times to mean more than mere uterine siblings. No woman would name both daughters Mary. Mary of Cleophas was the BVM’s sister in the sense that she was the wife of St. Joseph’s uterine brother Cleophas (according to early church historian Eusebius who had access to ancient historical records of these people, records that no longer exist). Well, Mary Cleophas was the mother of James the Less and of Joses, two of the “brothers” of the Lord. Also, according to Eusebius, Cleophas was also the father of Simon, the last bishop of Jerusalem before the Roman invasion in 70 A.D.
“James, Joses, SIMON” that’s three of the brothers of the Lord.
At the crucifixion, NONE of the brothers and sisters of the LORD are at the foot of the cross with their alleged “mother” in any of the four gospel accounts. Not one of them was there to comfort their grieving mother as her firstborn was being murdered.
Remember, now, that this was passover, when his brothers and sisters would most certainly have come up to Jerusalem for the feast, yet not one of them felt obliged to comfort their alleged “mother”, Mary, at the cross. In ancient Judaism this would have been considered an unforgivable insult to one’s mother, not to mention an absolutely heartless thing to do your mom.
So yes, there is much in scripture that indicates Mary had no other children of her own.
The oldest historical tradition in the ancient church is that Joseph was a widower in his 40s with several children already when he took Mary into his care. This would go a long way to explaining why Joseph disappears from the scene before Jesus begins his ministry: he was dead from old age.
Also, Mary bore God the Son of God in her womb, not some ordinary baby. She conceived by the very Spirit of God, who overshadowed her. Once that information had been shared with St. Joseph, a righteous Jewish man who stood in awe of God,
there is no way that Joseph could ever have looked upon Mary as a common woman ever again, whatever his original betrothal intentions might have been. By the overshadowing of God and her carrying the very Son of God in her womb, Mary had become
“hallowed ground,” so to speak.
God bless,
Jaypeeto4
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