I’m not surprised by the stats as many Catholics I know in real life who consider themselves as practicing Catholics either doubt or have a difficult time accepting that it truly is the Real Presence. Some just doubt it all together, but don’t think it’s a necessary part of being Catholic. Others do their best to accept it, but can’t really wrap their heads around it. I can understand the latter. It can seem like a pretty “radical” belief.
I really can’t answer for everyone. I think for some people, they need to have some sort of tangible proof. Everything in the earthly world appears to be very concrete, obvious. The mystery in many things within our lives have been diminished or have become obsolete. So, too, with the mystery within our faith as Christians… Catholics more specifically. More people need scientific proof of things and so they have a more difficult time basing their beliefs on just faith alone. I’m not a theologian or an expert in religion. I also am not going to pretend that I can prove something such as the Real Presence being there. I can’t… at least I personally cannot. But I have never doubted it, even when I’ve tried to intellectually prove for myself that it couldn’t be actually true. Perhaps it’s because I do believe that there are so many intangibles within the world which cannot be completely understood by a human mind. Perhaps it’s because I
choose to believe it. But one thing is for certain… I have always had this absolute innate sense within me that it is completely true and right. It’s something I realize I can never use as back up as to why I do believe it.
Now in terms as to why people may not be coming to mass… again, I think it varies with people. Most of the ones I know just think it is a “man-made” rule within the Church. They believe that they are spiritual people, believe in God and Jesus, but don’t think that they have to be there for Mass every Sunday. There are others… again I’m thinking of people I know personally… who don’t go because they are caught up in the stress and craziness of life. A lot of them are superinvolved in their children’s sports, dance, etc. which tend to take place all weekend long. I’m not putting parents down who are involved with these things… it’s great to be involved, but sometimes they put that first ahead of going to mass. Although they consider themselves church-goers, when it comes to their son being on the hockey team tournaments or their daughter in dance competitions, they consider it a personal “dispensation” to miss mass.
I will not pretend to see what’s in their hearts, so I will not judge them. I have tried to point them in the right direction when they mention to me that they can’t go to mass. I tell them about
masstimes.org so that they can find a church near-by, but the response to me is that it’s just such a busy day, even when they found a church near-by, the times just didn’t fit into their schedule.
I think all of this change in attitude has to do with a lack of education for our faith. I rarely hear priests talk about it this at mass. Perhaps if they incorporate it more often into their homilies along with other info on our faith, it might help. We had a priest who did that. It was a small parish in a rural community which my family frequented whenever we visited there on weekends. He got most of the parishioners to buy their own catechism. After the homily, he’d then take little parts of the catechism and helped explain it. I think it was the best thing. It was always a great parish, wonderful community, but I think it got even better after that and it was inspiring.