The Mass is not something to be marketed.
We all have personal preferences whether it is the extraordinary form, the ordinary form, (as well as other rites such as Maronite). Some like to hear lots of singing, some like it ‘spoken’. Some like contemporary music, some like chant, some like a ‘mix’. Some people are very ‘community’ oriented in gesture (hand holding, lots of emphasis on people ‘doing’); some are more quietly community oriented in gesture (joining with others in silent prayer, more *contemplative in a communal *way). Some like the ‘community, meal’ aspect of the Mass, some the ‘sacrificial, timeless offering’ aspect, many of both groups know and respect BOTh aspects. Some are casual in dress, some are more formal, many of both groups do so from personal piety and totally respect the other ‘POV’ equally. Some wish to keep what they consider the ‘best’ parts of the "modern’ Mass such as "MY language’ and "seeing what goes on’; some wish to keep what they consider the best parts of tradition such as the ‘older’ practices of benediction, ad orientum, processionals, devotions to various saints,and above all Adoration and the rosary. MOST of those in either group respect the other POV even if they do not particularly care for the practice and would willingly compromise and have BOTH things kept, either alternating things such as having Mass celebrated at one Sunday liturgy ad orientem and the other times facing the people, or having a ‘vernacular’ Mass but also incorporating benediction and things like the Saint Anthony procession along WITH that Mass.
I think we could get along with much less distress on EVERYBODY’S part if both sides would compromise more. However, quite often (and again, this is BOTH sides, people) you get somebody who is sure that, if their Mass is ‘modern’, that simply having one Mass on a Sunday with benediction will mean that 'the modern Mass will be hijacked by the Traddies". . .and if their Mass is more ‘traditional’, that simply having one Mass on a Sunday with ‘contemporary’ music will mean that their beloved Mass will be ‘hijacked by the godless modernists.’
Sad but all too familiar and we have seen umpteen threads which bear this out. . .