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blessedjulian
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I understand that we are obligated to attend Mass.
In my situation, I converted this past Easter Vigil (very very happy to say “I’m Catholic” now
. However, my parents/family have no idea. I live far enough away from them that we see each other only every few months at best.
Well, my sister (who lives across the country) had a baby just a few weeks ago. One of the things I KNEW traveling to be w/ her and my family was that I would miss Mass for however many Sundays I’d be gone. I did not have a car (my father rented it, his name was on the slip and thus it was illegal for me to drive except in an emergency), nor could I walk up to one of them and say “Hey, could you tell me how to get to the nearest Catholic church?”
It simply wasn’t possible.
But then last weekend I did confess this and the priest said to me that it the circumstance didn’t warrant a need for confession, since my situation was out of my control.
Even if the priest was wrong (I don’t believe he was), I did my duty (confessed it) and was covered by the absolution he granted at the end.
My point is I knew full well I’d miss at least one Mass, and there was no way, w/o destroying, and I mean destroying, family unity, especially at this special time, for me to find and get to a Mass. My parents are anti-Catholic. My mother had an “intervention” for me w/ my aunt when she caught me only READING about the RCC 10 years ago.
Blessings,
Julian
In my situation, I converted this past Easter Vigil (very very happy to say “I’m Catholic” now
Well, my sister (who lives across the country) had a baby just a few weeks ago. One of the things I KNEW traveling to be w/ her and my family was that I would miss Mass for however many Sundays I’d be gone. I did not have a car (my father rented it, his name was on the slip and thus it was illegal for me to drive except in an emergency), nor could I walk up to one of them and say “Hey, could you tell me how to get to the nearest Catholic church?”
It simply wasn’t possible.
But then last weekend I did confess this and the priest said to me that it the circumstance didn’t warrant a need for confession, since my situation was out of my control.
Even if the priest was wrong (I don’t believe he was), I did my duty (confessed it) and was covered by the absolution he granted at the end.
My point is I knew full well I’d miss at least one Mass, and there was no way, w/o destroying, and I mean destroying, family unity, especially at this special time, for me to find and get to a Mass. My parents are anti-Catholic. My mother had an “intervention” for me w/ my aunt when she caught me only READING about the RCC 10 years ago.
Blessings,
Julian