Mass Offering Question

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I would like to have a Mass offered for my parish priest who is also my spiritual director. But, I’m not sure how or where to go! I mean, I know how to request a Mass at our parish, but if it is for him, I don’t want him to have to say his own Mass! And I would like it to be a gift of sorts, and present a Mass card to him, not a request envelope where he has to schedule it himself, even if he does not end up saying that particular Mass. We belong to an FSSP parish, so I would like to have it said at another FSSP parish. I looked at several websites and cannot find any online requests.

Can anyone direct me or help me out with knowing how to go about this?

Thanks!!
 
You can find a list of all FSSP parishes throughout the world here
fssp.org/en/messes.htm Get in touch with one and ask for the Mass to be said. I’m sure they will help you if you explain what you have said here.
 
try a local monastery, retreat center, or a parish of one if his dear brother priest friends. Even possibly the Seminary where he rec’d his formation.
 
Remember him in silent prayer during the prayers of the faithful…every Mass I have attended since the death of my mothers, in this way, has been said f or her.
 
Remember him in silent prayer during the prayers of the faithful…every Mass I have attended since the death of my mothers, in this way, has been said f or her.
That is not the same thing as making a donation and having a stipend paid for a specific Mass intention. Not even close.
 
That is not the same thing as making a donation and having a stipend paid for a specific Mass intention. Not even close.
Evidently I am misunderstanding your point. Because I’m almost certain the Church does not subscribe to the theory that grace can be bought.

Would purchasing bottled Holy Water be more sacramental than filling a container from the font at the church?🤷

Check out Isaiah 1:11 and Psalm 5013:15a:

“What to me is the multitude of your sacrifices? says the LORD; I have had enough of burnt offerings of rams and the fat of fed beasts; do not delight in the blood of bulls,or of lambs, or of he-goats.
Code:
13*Do I eat the flesh of bulls,
  or drink the blood of goats?
14*Offer to God a sacrifice of thanksgiving,
  and pay your vows to the Most High;
15*and call upon me in the day of trouble;
 
It isn’t about “buying” grace. Yes, I can pray for my SD and in many ways. The Church considers a Mass said for someone the greatest form. You aren’t “buying” a Mass, you are donating to the parish/priest saying the Mass in the same way that you do not “buy” sacraments but you always donate when you have a baptism or wedding. Those that are financially unable to offer a stipend or a donation are certainly not denied!!

Hope that helps 🙂
 
Check out Luke 10:7 and 1 Timothy 5:18: “for the laborer deserves his wages.”

A Mass stipend was originally intended to pay for the maintenance of the parish priest and in some places and times is his only source of income. Are you suggesting that the parish neglect to support their pastors? Let’s see how long a selfish community like that lasts.
 
Check out Luke 10:7 and 1 Timothy 5:18: “for the laborer deserves his wages.”

A Mass stipend was originally intended to pay for the maintenance of the parish priest and in some places and times is his only source of income. Are you suggesting that the parish neglect to support their pastors? Let’s see how long a selfish community like that lasts.
You might not interpret the paradox of Scripture the way I do, because I know of many parishes that are have wealth despite their poverty, strength despite their weakness, and joy despite their sorrow.

I guess that’s why I enjoy being served by Franciscan friars, because they would willingly go hungry without expecting even minimal compensation.

A parish pastor is called to say mass regardless if someone is paying a stipend…I have never seen a box office in front of a church selling tickets for admission.
 
You might not interpret the paradox of Scripture the way I do, because I know of many parishes that are have wealth despite their poverty, strength despite their weakness, and joy despite their sorrow.

I guess that’s why I enjoy being served by Franciscan friars, because they would willingly go hungry without expecting even minimal compensation.

A parish pastor is called to say mass regardless if someone is paying a stipend…I have never seen a box office in front of a church selling tickets for admission.
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Anyone can offer their Holy Communion for anyone, and also have a Mass said as well.
It’s all wonderful prayer.
 
I would like to have a Mass offered for my parish priest who is also my spiritual director. But, I’m not sure how or where to go! I mean, I know how to request a Mass at our parish, but if it is for him, I don’t want him to have to say his own Mass! And I would like it to be a gift of sorts, and present a Mass card to him, not a request envelope where he has to schedule it himself, even if he does not end up saying that particular Mass. We belong to an FSSP parish, so I would like to have it said at another FSSP parish. I looked at several websites and cannot find any online requests.

Can anyone direct me or help me out with knowing how to go about this?

Thanks!!
That’s nice of you to do. Several religious orders offer masses for the intentions of persons living and dead. I like the Seraphic Mass Association manned by the Capuchin friars in Pittsburgh. For a small stipend, they will have a mass said for your priest. They will send a card to the person saying a mass had been offered for him. (The card is optional and you can click on a space so it will not be sent.)

seraphicmass.org/cards_info.asp
 
You might not interpret the paradox of Scripture the way I do, because I know of many parishes that are have wealth despite their poverty, strength despite their weakness, and joy despite their sorrow.

I guess that’s why I enjoy being served by Franciscan friars, because they would willingly go hungry without expecting even minimal compensation.

A parish pastor is called to say mass regardless if someone is paying a stipend…I have never seen a box office in front of a church selling tickets for admission.
"The faithful generally make an offering, called a stipend, to the priest in order to apply the Mass to a specific intention. By making this offering, the faithful, by parting with something that is their own, associate themselves more intimately with Christ who offers himself in the sacred Host, and obtain thereby more abundant fruits (See Pope Paul VI’s letter “Firma in Traditione” of June 13, 1974).

The offering of a stipend is also a means whereby Catholic may contribute to the upkeep of the clergy, and the Church in general.

However, so as to avoid even the appearance of commerce in sacred things, the Church regulates the practice of offering and receiving stipends in canons 945-958 of the Code of Canon Law and in some later decrees on specific applications of the code.

Thus, in normal circumstances, a priest may only accept one stipend for any one Mass even though he may offer up the Mass for several intentions. "
 
That’s nice of you to do. Several religious orders offer masses for the intentions of persons living and dead. I like the Seraphic Mass Association manned by the Capuchin friars in Pittsburgh. For a small stipend, they will have a mass said for your priest. They will send a card to the person saying a mass had been offered for him. (The card is optional and you can click on a space so it will not be sent.)

seraphicmass.org/cards_info.asp
Thank you for the link 🙂
 
I would like to have a Mass offered for my parish priest who is also my spiritual director. But, I’m not sure how or where to go! I mean, I know how to request a Mass at our parish, but if it is for him, I don’t want him to have to say his own Mass! And I would like it to be a gift of sorts, and present a Mass card to him, not a request envelope where he has to schedule it himself, even if he does not end up saying that particular Mass. We belong to an FSSP parish, so I would like to have it said at another FSSP parish. I looked at several websites and cannot find any online requests.

Can anyone direct me or help me out with knowing how to go about this?

Thanks!!
Make your request by telephone. Mail in the Mass stipend plus a little something for postage, and have them mail the Mass card to you.
 
"The faithful generally make an offering, called a stipend, to the priest in order to apply the Mass to a specific intention. By making this offering, the faithful, by parting with something that is their own, associate themselves more intimately with Christ who offers himself in the sacred Host, and obtain thereby more abundant fruits (See Pope Paul VI’s letter “Firma in Traditione” of June 13, 1974).

The offering of a stipend is also a means whereby Catholic may contribute to the upkeep of the clergy, and the Church in general.

However, so as to avoid even the appearance of commerce in sacred things, the Church regulates the practice of offering and receiving stipends in canons 945-958 of the Code of Canon Law and in some later decrees on specific applications of the code.

Thus, in normal circumstances, a priest may only accept one stipend for any one Mass even though he may offer up the Mass for several intentions. "
I agree…however, my response was to a poster who implied the stipend was required to have a mass said, and that if one did not offer a stipend they were stingy, and that the stipend was part of the sacramental nature of the Mass being said…ALL OF WISH ARE MISGUIDED, AND BLANTANTLY WRONG!
 
I agree…however, my response was to a poster who implied the stipend was required to have a mass said, and that if one did not offer a stipend they were stingy, and that the stipend was part of the sacramental nature of the Mass being said…ALL OF WISH ARE MISGUIDED, AND BLANTANTLY WRONG!
One of the Precepts of the Church is that each of the faithful provides for the material needs of the Church. Naturally, this is interpreted to mean that each provides according to his ability, but we see in the Gospels that a Widow’s Mite can be the most effective donation.
I guess that’s why I enjoy being served by Franciscan friars, because they would willingly go hungry without expecting even minimal compensation.

A parish pastor is called to say mass regardless if someone is paying a stipend…I have never seen a box office in front of a church selling tickets for admission.
And it is funny you should bring up Franciscans. I know several Franciscans in my area who are skillful and aggressive fund-raisers. In fact, checking through my memory I am hard-pressed to think of a single religious with a vow of poverty who was not doing his or her part to fund-raise for the Church or community or some cause. The Dominicans near me started a capital campaign for a new church building. The plans were actually scaled back when the Diocese came in and took over. The Jesuits up the road have a huge campus with a boys’ high school and a massive parish church, and they’re expanding it. And the Franciscans care for a historic Basilica and a major retreat center, both of which must require quite a bit of revenue merely for their upkeep.

Just because a Franciscan made a vow of poverty and is prepared to make personal sacrifices doesn’t mean he can’t or shouldn’t be supported by his community, especially those who are able to donate generously. It is a specious argument to say that they expect compensation. I certainly wouldn’t choose to be a religious under vows if I expected generous personal compensation. But you seem to misunderstand the concept of mendicants, who are religious who beg for their food. Begging is a time-honored tradition in the Church, and in fact Francis revolutionized it, because before he came along, monks were supported by rich benefactors. The Franciscans begged their meals from whoever could give a few pennies. And that has included Mass stipends.

Today, stipends may be a minimal compensation but they still represent something significant to the priests who receive them. I am sure that my parish priests appreciate the $70-80 per week that comes in due to generous parishioners making donations to pray for their loved ones. There is an implicit understanding that these donations do not go to support the parish or repair the roof or keep the lights on in the office, but they support the priest in his ministerial work.

So if you have never offered a Mass stipend and instead choose to close your eyes and pray during the General Intercessions, and you would rather go buy a Venti Latte at Starbucks than support your priest with $10, then yes, you are stingy and selfish: Luke 10:7.
 
I can celebrate Mass for the intention of your Pastor. I am a retired priest praying for my brother priests, especially for their sanctification. Tomorrow I will celebrate Mass for the intention of your Pastor. The time of the Mass will be 6:30 PM USA Eastern Time, Monday, Dec. 21, 2015, in Orlando, Florida, Good Shepherd Church. If you want to give a stipend for the Mass, you drop it in the Sunday Mass collection of your Parish Church. You may tell your Pastor that a Holy Mass was celebrated for his Special Intention by a brother priest. Please tell him my greeting: OREMUS AD INVICEM. You can ask his permission that I can include his name in my Guest Book which I started to write the names of my friends, especially those in the US Military and Veterans Affairs (VA) where I served for 26 years as US Navy and VA Chaplain.

Blessings,

Father Alfonso E. Erestain
erestain37@aol.com
 
If you feel that you don,t want the priest too say his own mass that you want too have said for him,then go too another parish have them dedicated too him on the day you want it,when it is put in the Bulletin,make sure you know what week it,s going to be in it,than get a copy and give too him,and tell him you had a mass for him, because you care. Amen :harp::harp:
 
I would like to have a Mass offered for my parish priest who is also my spiritual director. But, I’m not sure how or where to go! I mean, I know how to request a Mass at our parish, but if it is for him, I don’t want him to have to say his own Mass! And I would like it to be a gift of sorts, and present a Mass card to him, not a request envelope where he has to schedule it himself, even if he does not end up saying that particular Mass. We belong to an FSSP parish, so I would like to have it said at another FSSP parish. I looked at several websites and cannot find any online requests.

Can anyone direct me or help me out with knowing how to go about this?

Thanks!!
Just contact the parish office and let then guide you. Usually a $5-$10 offering is SUGGESTED… You may wish in humilty to request that your name NOT be used:thumbsup:
 
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