I must agree with Cat here. I respect Cat as a poster and as a Catholic. I disagree with Cat on some music issues and some teen issues but no one should ever question Cat’s motives or sincerity and even humbleness. That being said Cat, your skin should be a little tougher by now.

And perhaps have some compassion that not everyone has had the experience you have had. Like I said before, I have some compassion for those who have been through some bad music experiences at parishes. It is not to be taken lightly, it can actually destroy someones theology and faith putting their soul into jeopardy. And it can do that for both those on the traditional side and the progressive side.
I wish my skin was thicker. I am able to play the organ and make dreadful mistakes and not let it bother me, so that’s good.
I have compassion for those who have been through bad music experiences because I lived it all in the Evangelical Protestant churches. When Christian rock first started developing, I can remember when “long-hairs” were turned away from churches, and guitars were considered “phallic symbols”, which made them inappropriate for worship services.
Who knows how many musicians were lost forever to Christianity because of this foul treatment? Who knows how many musicians turned to writing and performing music that is truly anti-Christ because they were hurt by the “Christians” who treated them like dung?
But the Christian rockers gradually gained acceptance. People like Ralph Carmichael wrote several really good songs/hymns (they are still sung today–so much for the “theory” that Christian rock songs are here today gone tomorrow). Larry Norman toured the country giving small concerts that attracted roomfuls of teenagers and their youth pastors; our church youth pastor took a group of us to see him, and I found it so moving that I continued to follow Larry Norman right up until his death at too young an age. My husband and I actually drove our daughters several hundred miles to see him, and although he was older and grayer, he was still a powerful singer–our girls really liked him.
Things were peaceful for a time. But gradually the “rockers” started pushing out the older people who preferred the old-time Gospel hymns (Crosby, Bliss, Sankey, etc.) and the older-still traditional hymns (Wesleys, etc.) .
My mother remained committed to her Baptist church until she died. But many of her dear friends quietly left, and began attending mainline Protestant churches where older music was still done.
Now the mainline churches are often “tradition-free” when it comes to music, and instead of a pipe organ, you’ll hear the Praise and Worship band. Sigh.
My husband actually engaged in a debate in a denominational Christian magazine. The author of the article made it clear that older people who insisted on singing “old hymns” were “stifling the Holy Spirit” and that they needed to humble themselves and repent.
My husband was furious over this, and wrote a letter to the magazine protesting this condemnation of those who like traditional music. The exchange went on for several letters.
So yes, my husband and I have lived through it, seen it happen, know plenty of elderly people who are still hurting over it. We have very thin nerves when it comes to the “Music Wars” in the Church.
How incredibly diabolical that Satan would use MUSIC to not only divide Protestants and Catholics, but to divide Catholics, too. St. Michael, the Archangel, defend us!