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Bob_Crowley
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We could go into a lot of rigmarole about each of these terms, and all we’d do is confuse you (and probably ourselves in the process).Whoa whoa whoa! Slow down there. I wasn’t born into this faith. I don’t know what these words mean.
Introductory Rites
Rite of Sprinkling or Penitential Rite
Confiteor
Kyrie
Gloria
Opening Prayer (Collect)
Liturgy of the Word
Homily
Profession of Faith (Creed)
Prayer of the Faithful (General Intercessions)
Liturgy of the Eucharist
Preparation of Gifts (Offertory)
Offertory Prayer
Preface and Sanctus
Eucharistic Prayer
Pater Noster (Our Father or Lord’s Prayer)
Sign of Peace
Fraction Rite — Agnus Dei (Lamb of God)
Communion Rite
Prayer after Communion
Concluding Rite
My suggestion is that you just go to a mass, and sit in on it. Since you’re a Jew and not a Christian, it would be up to you whether you’d want to go forward during the communion (when the congregation go forward to receive the bread and wine (body and blood of Christ). If you do decide to go forward, just cross your arms over your chest, and the person handing out the bread will give you a verbal blessing, tracing a cross on your forehead with their finger. You won’t be able to take the bread or wine itself, since this is restricted to practising Catholics.
Or you could just remain seated during the communion process.
For your own peace of mind, I think it would be better if you just remained seated the first couple of times. That’s my suggestion anyway.
You’ll feel a bit out of place, but I think I’d feel a bit strange if I went to a synagogue, particularly if any Hebrew was used. It would be all Greek to me. Without the Jewish head covering, I’d stick out like a sore thumb. At least you won’t have that problem. And if you don’t go forward during the mass, the people around you will probably assume you’ve already been to mass somewhere else that week or weekend, and don’t need to take communion again.
After you’ve been to a mass a couple of times, then some of these terms will start to fall into place.
The ‘sign of peace’ for example is just a handshake with nearby parishioners (or maybe a kiss between husband an wife), which follows on from the “Our Father” prayer.
Frankly it would be easier to explain some of these terms if you’ve been to a mass or two, and have seen what goes on.
You could even go to the priest just before the mass (they usually hang around the front door just before the mass begins), and say, “Er, look, I’m a Jew, but I was wondering if it would be OK if I just sat in on this mass, as I’d like to get some sense of what it’s about?” It would be a very rare priest who refused this request. He might even have a couple of suggestions to make. But he wouldn’t have much time, if mass is about to start.