Unfortunately, methinks you speak the truth. Catholic schools struggle so much financially and depend so much on Protestant children, that while they remain “Catholic”, it is a much tamer version.
Some might wonder why parents don’t just send their kids to the public schools. In our city, a deseg lawsuit decimated our public schools. For seven years, we were under the control of a court-appointed “Master,” who foisted upon us every form of theoretical social experiment from all the Ivy League eggheads who knew squat about educating real children, but were nonetheless determined to re-shape society.
The result was a plummeting of standardized test scores; at one point, only one school in our city of 150,000 was NOT on the state watch list of underachieving schools.
Any parent who could pulled their children out of the public schools and either homeschooled them or put them into parochial schools or private secular schools. We did. We tried public schools for three miserable years, and finally realized that the war was unwinnable as long as the courts and the teachers’ union had the city in a stranglehold. We knew that our kids would grow up much too quickly, and we weren’t willing to let them be “experimented upon” by social engineers.
So we put them in a private secular school at great personal expense. Of course we had to continue to pay our taxes for the continuation of the “Great Experiment” in our public schools.
Lots of very unreligious people put their kids in the various religious (Protestant and Catholic) private schools in our city. Some of these schools had languished for decades with small classes and only a few teachers. Suddenly there were long waiting lists!
So putting kids in public schools isn’t always an option.
I still think that non-religious people who put their kids in religious schools and setting must accept the religious practices and traditions of that school.
But in our city, there are many private schools, including secular private schools, as well as several large and thriving home school co-ops. So I can understand why the Catholic school principals feel obliged to try to hold onto these non-Catholic students, not only for the tuition dollars, but also because while the child is with them, they have the chance to evangelize. If the child and his/her family departs for another private (non-Catholic) school, well, there goes the chance to bring another lamb into the fold.